**** What is a loving and caring husband? ****
Walah >>>>A very interesting question indeed, (in my opinion) question which is asked very much by women in failing relationships or failed relationship. I presume young or single woman may debate this among their peers but not as demanding as those who have once been 'adored' and 'honored' by men they titled Husbands and now renamed as Creatures I wish to ask the same question too, only this time I say 'What is a Loving Wife made off'
Maybe we take this original question into another level and work on a real case study. I'm a willing participant be explored, questioned or criticise to any level any one wishes to say.
Ok, this is what we do. I will list all of some qualities that I believe makes will qualify me as loving husband, I want you (woman out there) to copy these credentials into a new post and add or criticise how ever you wish to. Feel free to say any thing at all. We may come up with some answers to the original question that started this discussion. Rate me out of 10 if I stand a change to make it into the loving and caring husbands list.
-am 36 PNGan male
-Employed on K27 hourly rate
-Rents my own place currently
-live in ncd
-A social drinker, prefer going out weekdays, weekends are ideal family time. Wont mind my wife enjoys the same with me. Only drink at clubs, not homes.
-Am night person and goes to sleep late, say after midnight, be nice to have my wifes company. I suppose thats a good time to discuss issues concerning her or family.
-Can baby sit but I hate to change diapers. Can do laundry
-Can boast Im a very good listener and can hear all you want to tell. I dont get emotional very quickly. I take a shot walk out of the house if Im losing my cool and will return for more lecturing.
-Can change side in argument if I think your argument is reasonable
-Can easily say no to request if I think its unnecessary.
-Chew buai but dont smoke. Like receiving visitors
-Dont like borrowing money from friends or street people, I want to live on what I can afford.
-Dont like gardening very much because I sweat a lot but Loves fishing and hunting
-Dont like to see my wife cry as an excuse for any thing except if she has loss a dear friend or relative. Prefer she tell me about it.
-Dont like woman or people who cant drink medicines when they are sick
-Dont like woman who gossips or talk about someone else behavior.
-dont like woman who swears in their conversations or when they get upset.
-Dont mind hosting visitor on short stays. Wifes parents are not considers visitors, they are family.
-Dont need a shopping list while shopping, before leaving for work I pay a visit to the kitchen and the fridge every day.
-Dont own a car catch buses to work
-Dont treat birthday, mothers day, fathers day as special I believe we can celebrate that every two weeks when its my pay day.
-Easily forget things, have a pretty bad short memory, but with a very excellent long term memory.
-Hate cheaters. If wife cheats, she is gone out of my life. Prefer an honest and trusted wife
-Hate to see smokers carelessly flick cigarette butts just about anywhere
-Like to help cook, not all the time
-Love sex, and wife refusing to entertain me is very depressing for me especially when she is not menstruating (this has been my greatest weakness)
-Love to play with children outdoor games with kids and wife.
-May not offer quick solutions to your problems but Ill be willing to discuss alternatives
-Need a woman to title a wife, wont mind if she uses her maiden name. Prefer a working class woman, with good sense of humor
-Not fussy about any thing; food, clothes or lifestyle. As long as am breathing I know Im surviving.
-Plan my week ahead but willing to sacrifice for my wife, friends and family if their reputation will be at stake.
-Prefer to be on a losing side if I feel theres a storm coming.
-Regard less if wife works or not, shes entitled to half of my net pay for house hold management.
-Want to be told who and what the last phone conversation was about (dont mind if shes lying because lairs dont keep secrets, they will tell the same story with different versions).
-Want to reason out any issues the same day and apologize the same time if I see the need be. Our customs an traditions are our valued inheritance so I shall respect all and participate where necessary.
-Work long hours because of nature of work.
-Im sure I have other qualities but only a close friend or my wife can see that and tell more about them.
Ok! Thats most of what I can think about myself to present my case as good loving husband. Want your very honest opinion of me? Am I qualified to be in a good loving husbands list? Tell me how you wanted your husbands to be? I can use that advice and improve my list further?