It's that simple...

There is no such thing as a ideal man, perfect husband, wonderful boyfriend etc. The secret is trying to satisfy the needs of the other partner. See what their aspirations, fears, dreams are and provide your best to satisfy them in ways you are able to. In return appreciate who they are and what they give without comparing to anyone else. Just be a man and be true to your wife.

The returns are enormous. Its like the shares. Invest and you get huge returns in turn if you believe in the organization at the first place.

She will think you are the best man. The neighbours will think it was unfair that she was given the best. But its funny because you will also be thinking you had the best partner.