I am sitting here with my glass of gin and tonic and enjoying the music, atmosphere of one of our prestiges eating places here in our nations capital. In walks this handsome piece of highlands male flesh...yeah those rare ones that have a clean shave and neat haircut and yes the sexy *** tucked in not too tight but just right fit and clean shiny boots. He leads her to the table all too elegantly with a smile on his face and eyes that drive beyond her cloths as he talks to her and orders for her...I shift my attention elsewhere, lest I start looking like one of them "staring highlands women"...I look into the remaining ice in my drink and think...damn and dang...I got elegance, I got the looks, I got the savy, I got the intelligence, I got the manners, I got the everything and more...and yet... why is it that the best in Papua New Guinean men esp. highlands, comes out when the women is white. Tell me you all men out there....why is it that a white women or say mix race even, gets all the elegant gentleman behaivor from you, well most of yous.?? But when its a full blooded highlands women...its all just highlands brutality and hard attitude.