This posting was originally on Brisbane and Oz Board. Please read below my experience - and please warn other sisters, friends and daughters about these type of people and their behaviour.

This particular man was from the highlands - but this type of behaviour I am sure is applicable to men of all races. It is not my intention to victimise highlands people- but be a warning to other PNG females and to share my experience.

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I my self have been victim of Highlands womanising, lying and cheating - conning of thousands of dollars. This fellow I was in a relationship with has conned everyone into loving him - PNG, Brisbane and Sydney and beyond. He makes friends so easily. He has a gambling and drinking problem - his excuse is that he is really emotional and uses it to cope - which is total BS.

He would tell me he loves many times a day - phone messages, email etc..., he would cry (what man crys!) and tell sorry stories to appeal to my good nature. He would twist facts to make others look bad and make himself look the victim. When you stood your ground - he would make you feel guilty. He would deny facts when you confronted him until you had un-deniable evidence.

He lies about assets and business and talks as if he is so morally correct and mingles with the best in society. He is great with making you feel good and feeding your ego. He does you small favours from buying you a drink and larger to build your trust and weed his way in. Only once you spend time with him do you realise his untrustworthy and flaky nature.

He has destroyed the lives of women and left them with Children in PNG and is continuing with his ways Australia - Brisbane and Sydney. He may admit to one or two children - but lies to cover the other relationships.

I have been his lastest victim - I believe he was using me to get residency and because I have stable and decent income - for money and flights. From my investigations he has no money for himself as every Kina he earns in POM goes to child maintenance payments. He was dating me at the same time he was married to another (within the last 2 year), above and beyond other women in PNG.

From day one he wanted me to marry him and have his baby. During verbal arguments I felt intimidated and indrectly he would threaten me. When he was angry he said spiteful things and came back with illogical arguments. I hear from another of his unfortunate ladies that once they were married he was abusive - particularly when it comes to matters of money - and she would not give him any. I hear of stories when he was in Lae where he would abuse women - PNG style. In Australia at least the law protects females.

I beleive for lives he has destroyed -karma will catch up. I don't want to punish however the innocent children who depend on him for welfare.

I just hope my story - helps other females to think twice about Highlands men and men like him - Let this be a warning to all!!!

unfortunately this is a common fact now.