I am posting this because the link that Equestrian so kindly gave is now dead. I have followed this method for well over a year now, with only occasional "shampoo-washes" and the results are very very good for me. I find that my scalp stays cleaner longer when I use conditioner-only, than when I use shampoo followed by conditioner. Go figure. I MUST give credit where credit is due, however, and will now publicly thank Steph for posting about this method so long ago. It was from HER testimony that I devised my "plan", and from that plan, Equestrian came up with her wonderful (and thorough!) variation. Either one will work beautifully; feel free to experiment and vary aspects to come up with your own fabulous routine. So, without further ado, my routine:
I cleanse my hair three times a week, generally on Mondays, Weds or Thurs, and Saturday. I get in the shower, get my hair (and the rest of me) wet, then I wash my face. It's a compulsion that drives me to wash my face first, as I fear that the oils from my forehead will re-grease my hair if that face isn't cleansed first. So, now that my face is clean, I wet my hair again and get out the conditioner. I use an inexpensive conditioner to do this, partly because I am going to use quite a bit of conditioner, and partly because I have TRIED fancier/more-moisturizing conditioners and they just don't work as well. So, for me, White Rain Classics conditioner, Extra Body, is the one I choose, hands-down. Great stuff. I put it into one of those catsup-bottles, the kind you see on picnic tables across the country, with the needle-nose. That way, I can squeeze the conditioner RIGHT ONTO my scalp, in stripes. Otherwise, just load up as much conditioner as your hand can hold, and start applying it. You're gonna need at least two good handfuls, if you don't have the catsup bottle. Begin working that conditioner through the hair. How to know that you have enough conditioner on there? I know I have enough when the hair feels slick all over. Prior to that point, there will be portions of hair that want to "grab" my fingers, and still feel dirty. When EVERYTHING's slick, I know I have enough, and I finger-comb it through for a moment. Now, we are just to let that conditioner set and soak while we (as Steph put it) "attend to our other showerly duties". This will allow the conditioner to work the dirt and oils out of our hair for several minutes. Wash, shave, whatever, and let your hair soak in that conditioner. The conditioner has surfactants that are going to loosen and lift dirt and oils (as opposed to "stripping off dirt and oils", which the typical shampoo detergent does to your hair). Your hair and scalp will be clean, but not STRIPPED and dry.
When you have taken care of your 'showerly duties', it's time to return to the hair. Put your head under the spray for a short second, to add a bit of water to the mix. Then, begin working that conditioner in again. This time, it will almost begin to make a thin "lather". This is good. Now, it's time to rinse, and it's a long process. Rinse and rinse and rinse. And then rinse some more. The ONLY times my hair has NOT felt clean after CO washing, is when I've:
1) used too fancy/heavy/moisturizing a conditioner
2) not used ENOUGH conditioner, so that I still had dirty, "grabby" spots
3) NOT RINSED WELL ENOUGH
So rinse and rinse and rinse. And when you think you've got it all out, rinse another thirty seconds.
I like to follow this with a small dollop of Mastey's FreHair creme rinse (really a wonderful anti-static, detangling conditioner. I can't say enough how well I LOVE this creme rinse) and then rinse that out. It's such a nice little finishing touch, and you don't have to let it soak in more than a moment; it works fast!
You may wish to follow the conditioner-wash and the FreHair with a cold water final rinse (I do!). You may also put a bit of vinegar in the cold rinse-water (I do that about once a month, just in case I am getting buildup; but honestly, I cannot feel ANY buildup. The WHite Rain is Cone-free, and the FreHair is oil and wax free, and will NEVER buildup)
About once a month, I use shampoo and conditioner, and my hair gets greasy faster that time. But, old habits die hard, so I do 'wash' occasionally. My s/c of choice is Clairol's Fruit Fusions, because it gives the hair lots of slip and keeps it from tangling, regardless of gale-force winds. Nice stuff, and cheap, and cone-free. I used to love Finesse, but have found that the cones in it make my hair SO slick that I cannot maintain an updo; it slides right out.
For oils, I use jojoba with Lavender EO in it, just on the ends (from earlobes down) and it finishes moisturizing the ends. But washing with conditioner has kept any moisture my ends have IN them, IN them. It does NOT strip the oils out of the hair like shampoo does.
Give it a try, see how YOU like it!
Thanks,
4/32/35
2aFii, med brown with a reddish cast