Jorge the impressions i get are that you need to focus on each situation seperately.
Example focus on the more money job aspect and use affirmations to help you manifest what you desire in that area.
I believe by starting with the job/money aspect first and by you seeing improvements in that area this will increase your confidence and by intent you can then focus one by one on the other matters.,
But I suggest the job/money first.....improvements in that area will help to promote a confidence and a feeling of success that will then draw into your life other improvements you desire so that you would then be able to build small success upon small susscess and eventually you will find that what you want and desire in life just seems to be flowing to you!
What is happening now is that just one bad thing after another seems to keep happening to you .
You want to intentionally change this flow of energy into the opposite direction.
Focus on the job use affirmations and keep at it until you see the postive change you desire....even if that means changing jobs or your way of thinking.
Once this is done you should have no problem appling this same method to other areas of your life and enjoying the same success,
Hope this Helps!

I know you can do it Jorge
Love & Light Eternally,
Deborah Anna