....Is meditating and also start reading books about psychic development and about others psychic experiences .
Reiki is also good for clearing your channels .You could check out www.healingreiki.com Steve Murray is excellent and I highly reccomend his work .He also has a Psychic attunement Dvd and Psychic Attunement Level 2 Dvd but combine those with Reiki attunements and you will defianately see a diffrence.
Also may I suggest my brothers blog
http://magicandyou.blogspot.com/ it is just articles right now but eventually he will have a book out .Will gets thousands of people writing him asking for help in the area of spiritual devoplement and will be doing online workshops as well as tours in the near future .But allot of what you need is already there on his blog for Free so why wait for the book.
Another good resource :Ted Andrews writes some really good books about psychic development and he has been around for a long while and is a very respectable and noted author.
And for your meditations check out the White Light of Protection and the Silver Violet Flame on this website they are 2 of the most powerful protection ,energy clearing and vibration raising meditations I know of.
I hope this helps and I do feel you have allot to offer others with your gifts and it would be a shame if they went to waste and were never used.
Love & Light,
Deborah Anna