I have been with my husband for 15 years, married for seven. We have a daughter. Last year, my husband was working in another state. He had an affair. It was over between us. Then, we decided to try to work things out so he ended the affair, but unbeknownst to me continued to be friends with this woman. (She worked with him.) When I found out I was livid. I told him it was over and he needed to leave. He quit his job the next morning and told me that he was going to do whatever it took for me to see that he didn't want to be with her, that he wanted our marriage to work. That was a month ago. Since then, he and I had an arguement. It got pretty heated. All the anger and frustration I was feeling came out. This time he said he was done and I have found out that he's e-mailing her. I saw the e-mails myself. He told her that he has no intention of going back there. That this is where he belongs but he also told her it wasn't working out with us. I don't know if I should give up or fight for my marriage. I love him with all my heart. He said that he loves me as well. He feels that I don't really want to be with him and that we'll never get past what he's done. He also said he doesn't know why he's e-mailing her. He has no intention of being with her. This woman, in his words, just wants someone. She's divorced with two kids. It doesn't seem to matter to her that this is going to hurt our daughter or that she is doing the same thing to me that happened to her. Any advice would be appreciated. My birthdate is 5/25/76, his is 7/9/76, and hers is 3/31/79. Thanks in advance!
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