Alrighty then ladies...The men are feeling a bit down and out that we so easily whipped em on male bashing vs. women's language. So, I thought we could be generous and tell them why we still love them.
Now, I don't know if you are all familiar with Darwinism. Dr. Darwins theory on men and women, and their behavior. It is natural for women to go for the dominant male in any species. Dr. Darwin said that the dominant male will likely be able to reproduce dominant children, and female's know that. Therefore, if the female captures the dominant male, she can be sure that her species will live on.
So, just a few things I love about men:

Their ability to reproduce beautiful children.

I love a man with big arms, and who is taller than me. That way when he puts his arms around you you can feel safe, and that everything is right in the world.

I love the natural chemistry and sparks from a man. The butterflies in the stomach feeling.

There are so many things that women do love about men. These are just my top three. There are many more things I just love about men..I must hold back though, don't want them to recieve too much of an ego boost!

Hi Casalyn,

There's only one thing I like about me (at this moment in time): that's the male member !! LOL LMAO

Sorry. Well you did ask !!

"grey being"

Its working lull you into a false sense of security by acting beaten then pouch

Or maybe its because we are to polite to deliver the death blow???

Things Men love in women
1 They are quiet when sleeping

2 Ummmmmmmmmmm

Awwwwwww Merlin ....

~ sobbing ~
You were only lulling us into a "false sense of security" ???

and then you're thinking of dealing ... erm ...
What kind of a blow????

~ batting eyelashes innocently and unbelievingly ~

LmaoOOOooooo@ Merlin
~ shin kick ~

You know...I am always quick to male bash, because it is sooo much fun...But, I do have more that I just love about men...Especially that special man....
I love how just by the sound of my voice over the telephone, he knows what mood I am in.
I love how I can be 10-20 feet away from him, and he can tell if I'm gonna need a hug before he gets close.
I love signing onto my computer and seeing an e-mail from him.
I love how he knows that I can be moody, and takes the mood swings in stride.
I love how when I see him, or hear his voice I get a lump in my throat, and butterflies in my tummy.
I love how he can be my knight in shining armour, and come to my rescue when I need him the most....IE...Dead car battery, flat tire...Heavy furniture that needs moving.
I love how he knows I say I don't need him to do those things, but he knows I need him to do those things.
I love sitting next to him in a small coffe house, drinking my mocha and reading Norwegian Poetry to one another...
I love the depth of his eyes.
I love the meaning behind each of his smiles.
I love the intellectual stimulation in our conversations.
I love learning from him...and letting him teach me new things, or improve on the things I have learned.
~sighs~
I just love him.

Awwwww Casalyn ....

I'm seriously dabbing at leaky eyes having just read what you wrote about the man you love.
Well said gurlie!! ~ wink ~

As you well know ...
In an attempt to write a response to your very first post ...
“Things We Love About Men”
What I ended up with was very like unto what you came up with ....
LmaoOOOooo@ we gurlies ‘eh???

I wasn’t going to post it in the Garden, as I thought it too personal to share here.
But .... on second thought ... and seeing as you posted yours ...
Please find as follows ...

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“Things I love about ONE Very Special Man in particular”

I Love it that when I’m honestly struggling for the right words to say something important ....
He seems to be ahead of me.
And knows with out me actually saying it ...
What’s on my mind and in my heart.

I love it that he gives me the option of just trusting that he knows what it is I’m trying to say ....
But ... If I have a need to actually say the words ...
He has the patience to wait for them

I love it that he’s strong enough, and secure in his own strength ...
To let me also be strong, and not be intimidated in the least by it!!

I love it that when I launch into any kind of new adventure ... he sincerely encourages me to “Go Get ‘em”
But on those occasions when I go running out into the wide world, and happen to fall down and skin my knees ....
He’s right there (verbally) ... to pick me up ... dust me off ... dry my tears ... and then set me on my feet, with encouragement to “try again.”

I love it that when his world is weighing extra heavy on his shoulders, that he doesn’t take offence, and actually listens when I offer views or suggestions.

I love it that he spoils and pampers me sometimes ... but and that he also lets me spoil and pamper him!!

I love it that he honestly seems to have unending patience where my tantrums are concerned.

I love it that he treats me with respect.

I love it that he knows I’m not a man ... and he doesn’t expect, nor does he want me to act like one!

I love it that he likes, and encourages my soft side, but that he also can laugh and have fun with my tom boy side as well.

I love it that takes me seriously, but also knows when I’m only having fun.

I love it that he recognizes my moods and deals well with ALL of them!!

I love it that he knows what a foul temper I have, and when to tell me “Enough Is Enough!!”

I love it that he knows how to lighten my dark moods and even when he can’t ... That he tries so hard.

I love it that there are So Many Things that he can do Much Better then I ... but that he Never makes a big deal out of the fact.

I love it that he Never takes advantage of ... or abuses my weaknesses ... but instead encourages me to borrow on his strengths.

I love it that he actually IS my best friend, and that I can rest assured, and be secure in knowing that he would never betray me!

I love it that he takes my words and holds them as truth .. never doubting my sincerity.

I love it that I can trust him with Any and ALL my secrets ... no matter how silly, or small, or genuinely serious they might be.

Most of all ......
I love it that he seems to know instinctively ... ( even when I can’t see it ) ... when to stand in front of me as a shield from some perceived harshness or harm ....
When to stand behind me ... in support of something I want to accomplish on my own!!
But above all .... that he always keeps me beside him, and treats me like a best mate, and a special partner in his life!!

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And so ....
For all of these things and for making me feel as though I'm someone special in his life ....
I just want to Thank him ....
For truly being that Very Special "One Particular Man In My Life"

You know, I have another question....So, these are the things we love about men..AND here we are just a pouring out our souls...All kidding aside...I would like to know what the men really do love about women.
Because, I dunno about you Auntie, but I could sure use an ego boost before I go back to my male bashing post...
And, one more question for a brave man to answer....
Here is the situation...
There is a man, and a woman...They love one another very much...Neither is married, nor in a serious relationship...They would make the best couple...So why can't they be together? The woman has told the man how she feels...The man has agreed with her just not in so many words..But still, the man and woman aren't together...Why is that?

~ tapping foot while muttering colourful things under her breath ~

Seeeeeeee Casalyn???
This would be the typical fashion for the way men handle emotional issues ....

They ignore them!!!!

They let you pour your heart out ... or sit quietly looking right at you .... as you broach sensitive subjects with them ....
Then they look at you innocently and say something profound such as .....

"erm .... what were you saying dear???"