My affair is ending. I'm a single woman and he is married. We have been together for almost two years. I had no idea this would evolve as it has. At first, it was fun and I wasn't connected. I am intrigued with him. I always have been. He is a good man. I have fallen madly in love with him, especially since in October when I told him I had a date....he then started to give me money and gifts and started talking like we would have a life together one day. He has changed in the past two to three weeks. The calls are infrequent. He is no longer telling me he loves me. And it is very, very difficult. Although I do believe that it will be easier once I get over the heartache...waiting for calls, e-mails, and for him to leave is making me crazy.
I don't want to face the heartache ahead, and will employ the strategy I used when I was divorcing my ex....think about all the negative and see the relationship for what it was. How long does it take to get over this? I will never ever do this again. I just want it to be done and over and to not feel pain. Have you had it end? How long did it take to recover?