How old are you?
How old is MM?
If you are married, how old is H?

What level of education did you complete?
MM?
H?

What is your personal income range.
MM?
H?

Edited to ask: How long was MM married before starting your EMR?

Im 24.
MM is 28.(? I think?! Maybe 29)
Im not married.

Level of Education:
Me: Completed bachelor's (computer Science), working on Masters (Industrial & Systems Engineering).
MM: 2 years of college in Elementary Education(?)

Personal Income Range:
Me: 42k
MM: about 30k???

How old are you? I am 33
How old is MM? 35
If you are married, how old is H?

What level of education did you complete? BS in Education, Psychology, Sociology
MM? PhD in Microbiology
H?

What is your personal income range. $33,000
MM? ???
H?

How old are you?
49
How old is MM?
49
If you are married, how old is H?
47

What level of education did you complete?
some college
MM?
high school
H?
high school

What is your personal income range.
60K+
MM?
90K+
H?
self-employed, about $30K for now

How old are you? 48
How old is MM? 38

Divorced for 6 years after 21 years of marriage

What level of education did you complete? Associates Degree
MM? Post Doctoral


What is your personal income range. 50-75K
MM? 250K+

How old are you? 24
How old is MM? 38
If you are married, how old is H?

What level of education did you complete? College
MM? High School
H?

What is your personal income range.
MM? 60K
H? 75K

No text

I am 33
MM is 36

Education:
Me: Highschool graduate
MM:Degree in Management/Sales

Income:
Me:$15,000
MM:$75,000

How old are you? 36
How old is MM? 46
If you are married, how old is H?

What level of education did you complete? college
MM? college
H?

What is your personal income range. 70,000
MM? 90,000
H?

How old are you? 28
How old is MM? 49
If you are married, how old is H? n/a

What level of education did you complete? Associates degree
MM? he's a doctor
H? n/a

What is your personal income range. 30-35k yearly
MM? 300-400k yearly
H? n/a

How old are you? 38
How old is MM? 49

What level of education did you complete?
B.S. Business Admin/Accounting
MM? Masters


What is your personal income range. $70,000
MM? $30,000

How old are you? 20
How old is MM? 36
If you are married, how old is H?
never married

What level of education did you complete? B.A.Sc
MM? MD


What is your personal income range. 60,000
MM? 250,000 - 400,000

How old are you? 36
How old is MM? 42
If you are married, how old is H? N/A

What level of education did you complete? Some college; Technical Certifications
MM? Masters
H? N/A

What is your personal income range. 75K-80K
MM? 100K+
H? N/A

How old are you? 31
How old is MM? 31
If you are married, how old is H? 37

What level of education did you complete? B.S.
MM? B.S.+
H? High School

What is your personal income range. $37000
MM? $70000-80000
H? $35000

I'm 39
MM is 34

I was married 10 years and divorced almost 10 years

My Education: Masters Degree
MM Education: BS in Accounting

My Income: over $100K
MM Income: over $100K

How old are you? 32
How old is MM? 42
If you are married, how old is H? 36

What level of education did you complete? Associate of Arts Degree
MM? Technical School
H? Some college

What is your personal income range. 30K
MM? 50K
H? 70K

AGE
Mine: 44, High School
M,M. 39 2 years of College,
(MM's wife 39 college 1 yr Buisness)
Hus. 43 1.5 college, electronics

Mine: Lost job due to EMA
Hus: 44K
MM: 100K

How old are you? 39 How old is MM? 54 If you are married, how old is H? 40 What level of education did you complete? college MM? HS H? HS What is your personal income range? 0 MM? 90,000-100,000 H? 75,000-85,000

How old are you? 39
How old is MM? 52

What level of education did you complete? BA in art history & studio art, 2nd BA in art education.
MM? I think 2 years of college, majoring in LSD, rock music, motorcycles & beer.

What is your personal income range. Really poor - $28,000 a year. Get some help from my family, thank god, otherwise I'd be on the street.
MM? HE makes the same as I do, more or less - but his W makes about $50,000! She's the meal ticket.

Edited to ask: How long was MM married before starting your EMR? 14 years - but I'm not the first OW for him, not at all.

How old are you? -- 29
How old is MM? -- 47
What level of education did you complete? -- BA
MM? -- BS and Masters

What is your personal income range. $35K
MM? Approx $100K

Edited to ask: How long was MM married before starting your EMR? -- 19 years

I am 25.
MM is 35.
H is 32.

I have a BS.
MM has a BS.
H completed high school and some college.

Me: 150K - 175K
MM: 250K
H: 25K

How old are you? late 30's
How old is MM? mid 50's
If you are married, how old is H?n/a, his W is mid 50's

What level of education did you complete? MBA
MM? school of hard knocks, owns own business
XH? bachelors

What is your personal income range.
MM? +300K
XH? 30K

Edited to ask: How long was MM married before starting your EMR? 28 years

Age
Me: 29
MW: 28

Education
Me: Bachelor Engineeing
MW: Bachelor BioChemistry

Income
Me: 42k
MW: 32K I think

How old are you? 38
How old is MM? 48
If you are married, how old is H? N/A

What level of education did you complete? Duel Bach. in Business Administration and Industrial Management.
MM? Bach in Business Administration
H?

What is your personal income range. $70,000 - 80,000
MM? I honestly don't.
H?

Edited to ask: How long was MM married before starting your EMR? 24 years.

How old are you?
-30
How old is MM?
-36
If you are married, how old is H?
-36

What level of education did you complete?
- BS
MM?
- BA- getting MBA
H?
- HS

What is your personal income range.
-50+K
MM?
-70+K
H?
-25 K

Edited to ask: How long was MM married before starting your EMR?

I co-habitated/married for 6 years before EMR.
He co-habitated/married for 3 years before EMR.

How old are you? 30
How old is MM? 37
If you are married, how old is H? N/A

What level of education did you complete? High School
MM? BS

What is your personal income range. $20,000/year currently
MM? $42,000/year

Edited to ask: How long was MM married before starting your EMR? 10 years

MM was married for almost five years before our EMR began.

How old are you? 20
How old is MM? 36


What level of education did you complete? B.Sc.
MM? Master in science, PhD, MD

What is your personal income range.
MM? 500K +


Edited to ask: How long was MM married before starting your EMR? 13, but he has been with wife for 15+ years.

HOW OLD: me- 43
MM -49
H- n/a

Education: me-high school
MM-high school

Income: me-$30,000
MM-$75,000

How long was MM married before we started EMR? 8 yrs

How old are you? - 23
How old is MM? - 35
If you are married, how old is H? - I'm not

What level of education did you complete? - i'm in university
MM? - some college

What is your personal income range. - 17,000
MM? - getting close to 100,000

How long was MM married before starting your EMR? 8 months

How old are you? 32
How old is MW? 35
If you are married, how old is W? Was married - now ex-W is 32 as well. (MW and I both divorced and are now together)

What level of education did you complete? Currently in grad school for MS Degree
MW? Currently in grad school for MS Degree
W? She has a Masters degree

What is your personal income range. $60K - 80K
MW? $60K - $80K
W? $60K - 80K

Edited to ask: How long was MW married before starting your EMR? 6 years.

How old are you? 47
How old is MM? 44
If you are married, how old is H? 50

What level of education did you complete? 2 yrs college
MM? 7th grade
H? BS + 5th

What is your personal income range. $29,000
MM? $50,000
H? $50,000

Edited to ask: How long was MM married before starting your EMR? 14 years

How old are you? 46
How old is MM? 47
If you are married, how old is H?

What level of education did you complete? some college
MM? Masters
H?

What is your personal income range. 30,000
MM? 100,000
H?

How old are you?
33
How old is MM?
50
If you are married, how old is H?
Never married

What level of education did you complete?
High school
MM?
High school
H?
n/a

What is your personal income range.
AU$28,000
MM?
AU$45,000
H?
n/a

Edited to ask: How long was MM married before starting your EMR?
About 25 years but he had another OW for most of that!

How old are you? - 40
How old is MM? - 31
If you are married, how old is H? - 32

What level of education did you complete?-Technical Networking Degree
MM?-Technical
H?-Technical

What is your personal income range. 100K
MM? 125K
H? 90K

Edited to ask: How long was MM married before starting your EMR? - He was M 9/I was M 12

How old are you? 36
How old is MM#1?45
If you are married, how old is H?38

What level of education did you complete?
MM#1?Masters
H?BS

What is your personal income range.
MM#1?70K
H?90K

Edited to ask: How long was MM #1 married before starting your EMR?20+ yrs

How old are you? mid 30s
How old is MM? mid 50s
If you are married, how old is H? n/a

What level of education did you complete? MA
MM? Doctorate
H?

What is your personal income range? 45k
MM? 250k?
H?

Edited to ask: How long was MM married before starting your EMR? 23 yrs

How old are you? 39
How old is MM? 39
If you are married, how old is H? 40, mmw is 39

What level of education did you complete?
In law school.
MM? He dropped out of college.
H? B.A.

What is your personal income range. <0>
MM? 7 figures
H? 5 figures

Edited to ask: How long was MM married before starting your EMR? he was married 17 years, I was married 14

How old are you? 43
How old is MM? 48

What level of education did you complete?
MM? BS
Self? BS

What is your personal income range.
MM? 80K
Self? 80K

How long was MM married before starting your EMR? 4 years

How old are you? 28
How old is MM? 34

If you are married, how old is H? Not married


What level of education did you complete? Some College
MM? High school


What is your personal income range. 35,000
MM? around 75,000-85,000

How long was MM married before starting your EMR? Married 7 years, been together for 9 years total. They have a 3 year old.

How old are you? 27
How old is MM? 43

What level of education did you complete? Masters Health Information Systems
MM? BS Criminal Justice

What is your personal income range? $45K
MM? $62K

How long was MM married before starting your EMR? 16 years

My age - 29
MM's age - 30
H (now divorced) - 30

MM - 4 year college degree
H - High school graduate

MM's income - 100,000 per year
H's income - 35,000 per year

MM was married just 2 years when he started affair

Sorry,

My education - 4 year degree
My income - 70,000 annually

Age: me 52 MM 50
Education: me Tertiary MM Tertiary
Income: me 40K MM 90K

MM was married for 16 years when EMR began

i am 41
xmm is 55
h is 52

my inc. 70K
mms inc. probably about that
hs inc. 50ishK

mm was married 15? years b4 affair w/me but i wasnt the first. nor was he my first. we are even on just about every score there is, no lie. we are a lot alike.

How old are you?
30 (28 when EMA began)

How old is MM?
49 (47 when EMA began)

If you are married, how old is H?
N/A

What level of education did you complete?
Master's Degree

MM? 2yrs of college
H? N/A

What is your personal income range.
50K
MM? 65K
H? N/A

Edited to ask: How long was MM married before starting your EMR? 25yrs

How old are you? - 28
How old is MM? - 39
If you are married, how old is H? na

What level of education did you complete? - college degree
MM? - college degree
H?

What is your personal income range. - $38k
MM? +$60k
H?

Edited to ask: How long was MM married before starting your EMR? 14 years

How old are you? 30
How old is MM? 46
If you are married, how old is H?33

What level of education did you complete? Degree
MM? College
H? Degree

What is your personal income range. 30K
MM? 60k+??
H?

Edited to ask: How long was MM married before starting your EMR? 21yrs

How old are you? 33
How old is MM?,42
If you are married, how old is H? divorced, but he is now 35

What level of education did you complete?
MM? bachelors
H? masters

What is your personal income range.
MM? 105k
H? 90k

Edited to ask: How long was MM married before starting your EMR? 21 years

How old are you? 51
How old is MM? 39
no H, but MM's W is 40

What level of education did you complete? MBA
MM? 2 yr assoc degree
no H, but MM's W completed 9 yrs of college, with no degree

What is your personal income range? $130K
MM? $250K+

How long was MM married before starting EMR? 8 yrs. Our EMR has gone on for 5 yrs.

I am an ex-OW - all figures are based on when the EMA started.

I was 35, he was 50. I was not married.

I have a J.D., he has a masters in education.

I made 53,000, he made 60,000.

He was married 20 years before the EMA -- but ours was far from the first for him -- he probably had the first one when he was married about 5-8 years.

How old are you?
32

How old is MM?
46

If you are married, how old is H?
34

What level of education did you complete?
High School

MM?
B.A., M.A., LL.B.

H?
High School

What is your personal income range.
$30,000

MM?
$200,000+

H?
$50,000

How long was MM married before starting your EMR?
17 years

How old are you? 27
How old is MM? 36
I'm Single

What level of education did you complete? Universitary (Electronics Engineering)
MM? Universitary, IT specialist

Our income aren't comparable with US ranges?

How long was MM married before starting your EMR? 13 years

How old are you?
How old is MM?
If you are married, how old is H?

What level of education did you complete?
MM?
H?

What is your personal income range.
MM?
H

ME: 38 YEARS OLD
MM: 39 YEARS OLD
NEVER MARRIED

ME: DROPPED OUT OF H.S.
MM: DON'T KNOW

ME: DON'T WORK
MM: UNCERTAIN!

How old are you? 37
How old is MM? 53
If you are married, how old is H? n/a

What level of education did you complete? college grad
MM? h.s.
H? n/a

What is your personal income range. $60k+
MM? same
H? n/a

Edited to ask: How long was MM married before starting your EMR? 34 yrs

My age 37
MM 41
My x LT SO 42
Education me-AAS working on BA now
MM BA
xLTSO high school
Income me-currently part time while student 20K, previously 35K
MM-500,000
xLTSO 150,000
MM marriage 6 years

Im 38
MM is 47

Level of Education

Associate Degree

MM Doctorate

MM has been involced with his wife for close to 30 years.

How old are you? 30
How old is MM? 50

What level of education did you complete? BA
MM? MA
H?

What is your personal income range.
MM? 100K

How old are you? 30
How old is MM? 35
If you are married, how old is H? not married

What level of education did you complete?
college

What is your personal income range.
50k

Edited to ask: How long was MM married before starting your EMR? 6 years

together 4 yrs now

How old are you? 30
How old is MM? 30


What level of education did you complete?
MM? College Degree in Law
H? College Degree in Fire Science

What is your personal income range.
MM? 20,000+
H? 20,000+

What is your personal income range.

Me - 50,000+
MM - 50,000+

Hit the wrong keys!

I'm 28, began EMR when I was 24 (I think)
MM is 37.

I've never been married.

I have a degree in religion.
MM has a degree in hospitality and culinary arts.

I make about $35,000.
MM makes about $50,000.

He was married for about three years when we started the EMR.

How old are you? 51
How old is MM? 57
If you are married, how old is H? Not Married

What level of education did you complete? BA Comm Arts
MM? MBA

What is your personal income range. $23-35K
MM? 200K+


Edited to ask: How long was MM married before starting your EMR? He had one LT('82-'86,'89-93,'98-'01)affair before taking up with me in Nov '02.

He was married for 16 years before starting his first EMR.

I am 51
MM is 43
I am widowed

Me: BA, RN
MM: AA

me: 150K +
MM: 70K

MM was married 18 years

I'm 27
He's 40
I have a college education
He was married 14 yrs with no affair before me.

How old are you? 38
How old is MM? 29
If you are married, how old is H? 36

What level of education did you complete? bachelors + some grad work
MM? some college
H? graduate degree

What is your personal income range.
MM? I have no clue, but pretty sure it's less than what my H and I make together.
H: > $100, 000 (includes my salary)

Edited to ask: How long was MM married before starting your EMR? I really have no clue - never asked.

How old are you? --- 22
How old is MM? --- 34


What level of education did you complete?-- college
MM? -- High school

What is your personal income range.-- HA!- still at school
MM?--- c$40,000


Edited to ask: How long was MM married before starting your EMR?----- 2 years exactly

me: 51
xmm:58
he has been married about 30 years. I think that he messed around after 5-7 years. He claimed that this was the closest to a relationship he ever had- in an affair.
My education:Eng. Lit. post grad work
His education: Law degree
I own a business.
He is an attorney
my income:200k
his income: 300k

How old are you? 40
How old is MM? 63
If you are married, how old is H? 39

What level of education did you complete? College
MM? High School
H? High School

What is your personal income range. 35,000
MM? 150,000
H? 50,000

How long was MM married before starting your EMR? 40 years ..... and I am his first

32
49
single

Bachelors
Bachelors

25,000
40,000

MM married 20 years

How old are you? 26
How old is MM? 39


What level of education did you complete? some college
MM? college degree

What is your personal income range. about 27K
MM? wouldnt dare to ask - i'd just say he was comfortable


Edited to ask: How long was MM married before starting your EMR? 15 years

I was 39 when I met MM - he was 39 also. I have completed some university, as had he. Our incomes were in the 25,000/year range each. He had been married almost 20 years when we met - I had been married 19.

How old are you? 44
How old is MM? 70
If you are married, how old is H?

What level of education did you complete? B.S.
MM? HS
H?

What is your personal income range. 75000
MM? 40000
H?

Edited to ask: How long was MM married before starting your EMR? MM was married 44 years when we started. That was 3 years ago..he had two short term affairs earlier in his marriage.

How old are you? 42
How old is MM? 38
If you are married, how old is H? not M

What level of education did you complete? University
MM? University


What is your personal income range. US$150,000.00
MM? US$110,000.00


Edited to ask: How long was MM married before starting your EMR? 18 years

I'm 28. He's 33. She's going to be 40 in a few months.

All 3 of us have graduate degrees; he has a doctorate and the two of us have M.A.'s

Forgot some.

I make less than $25,000 per year. He makes about $250,000. She has no income.

They had been married 10 years when the affair started.

I'm 39, he's 50.
I have a master's degree, he has a doctorate.
I have a private school k-12 education, he has a public one.
I went to an ivy league, so did he.
I have three kids, so does he. He has two girls and a boy, so do i. The age differences between his first two and my first two are similar. The difference between his second and third is six years, the difference between my second and third is six and a half years.
Our incomes are comparable (if you don't include his wife's and you do include my child support).

He was married 24 years before our affair.
I'm not his first affair.
He's from a working class catholic family, I'm from an upper-middle class, non-religious family.
We're both anglo-saxon.
I've been separated for four years (divorced only recently).

His wife is 48.
My ex is 37.

Interesting that so many of these posts describe relationships with people who have graduate degrees and that so many of these MMs are so much older than the OW, and that so many of these MMs have had previous affairs.

What does that say?

I'm 19
my MM is 56
i'm single, his W is 53

Education
I'm currently in college
MM? high school

he was married for 29 years when our EMR began, and i'm not the first, but i am the first the W knows of

How old are you? 33
How old is MM? 41

What level of education did you complete? H.S.
MM? H.S.

What is your personal income range. 70K
MM? 45K


Edited to ask: How long was MM married before starting your EMR? 14 years

How old are you? 30
How old is MM? 35
If you are married, how old is H? not married

What level of education did you complete:some post graduate

MM:post graduate


What is your personal income range: 80K
MM: about 120K


How long was MM married before starting your EMR? one year

I began my affair 5 years ago, so when we began I was 25 and he was 30

I'm 45
My MM is 48
My H is 47

I have a 4 year college degree
Both my MM and my H have Master's degrees

My personal income is $27K
My MM makes $80K? Not sure, he's VP of a national company.
My H makes about $60K

Edited to ask: My MM was married approximately 11 years when we started our XMR.

How old are you?
39
How old is MM?
45
If you are married, how old is H?
N/A

What level of education did you complete? B.S. in Computer Science
MM?
Didn't finish High School.
H?


Edited to ask: How long was MM married before starting your EMR? a long damned time...16 yrs.

Age: I'm 41
MM is 46

Education: I have a bachelor's degree
MM has some college

Income: me-40K
MM-40K

Me: 45
65,000/yr
BS degree

MM: 70
Millions/yr
MS degree

How old are you? 42
How old is MM?57
If you are married, how old is H? 45

What level of education did you complete? jd
MM? hs
H? ma

What is your personal income range. 80k
MM? 85k
H? 35k

Edited to ask: How long was MM married before starting your EMR? 15yr

How old are you? mid thirties
How old is MM? late forties
If you are married, how old is H

What level of education did you complete? Bachelor's
MM? Master's
exH? High school

What is your personal income range. 20,000-25,000
MM? ???
H?50,000

Edited to ask: How long was MM married before starting your EMR? over 20 years

How old are you? 22
How old is MM? 27
If you are married, how old is H? n/a

What level of education did you complete? Bachelor's Degree
MM? Master's Degree
H? n/a

What is your personal income range. 35K
MM? 35K
H? n/a

Edited to ask: How long was MM married before starting your EMR? 1.5 years

I'm 33.
He's 39.
I'm single.

I have a Bachelor of Arts degree.
He is a high school graduate.

My income about 27,000.
His far more, but I'm not sure how much.

He was married 2 years.

How old are you? 34
How old is MM? 36
If you are married, how old is H? I am recently divorced, exH is 10 yrs older than me

What level of education did you complete? MA
MM? BA
H? BA

What is your personal income range. 40-50K
MM? 20-30K
H? 30-40K

How old are you? 24
How old is MM? 45
If you are married, how old is H? N/A

What level of education did you complete?
MM? High school
ME? 3 years of college

What is your personal income range.
MM? 100,000 or more a yr
Me? 20,0000 yr
H? N/A

How old are you? 36
How old is MM? 46
If you are married, how old is H? Never married.

What level of education did you complete?
MM? M.D.
ME? B.S. in Nursing

What is your personal income range.
MM? $600,000+
Me? $50,000
H? N/A

My age- 40
MM age- 58

We are now married to each other

Education- We both have Bachelor's Degrees- I have
one, he has two

Income-
Me- $75K
Him- $88K

MM was married 10 years before our EMR started

Comparative Stats
November 22 2002 at 3:20 PM
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How old are you? 28
How old is MM? 57
If you are married, how old is H?

What level of education did you complete? BA
MM? MD


What is your personal income range. 40k
MM? i think 300,000+


Edited to ask: How long was MM married before starting your EMR? 33 yrs

emerald, are you still collecting info for your book?
if you are:

How old are you? 25
How old is MM? 32
If you are married, how old is H? I'm single

What level of education did you complete? MFA
MM? some college
H?

What is your personal income range.
MM? about $30K/year, I think....
H?

How long was MM married before starting your EMR? 5 years

Ages?
Me - 40
Him - 55

What level of education did you complete?
Me - 2 yrs
Him - 4 yrs

What is your personal income range.
Me - $25
Him - $200,000 (more I'm sure with investments and such)

How long was MM married before starting your EMR?
30 years or so.

How old are you? single 32
How old is MM? 37
If you are married, how old is H?
What level of education did you complete? b.a.
MM? some college
H? n/a

What is your personal income range.50K
MM? 110K
H?

Edited to ask: How long was MM married before starting your EMR? 8 years

oops,forgot the questions!!

How old are you? 31
How old is MM? 34
If you are married, how old is H? 41

What level of education did you complete? I am getting my PhD
MM? BA
H? Associates

What is your personal income range. $45k- about depends on consulting work
MM? Don't know- about $60K
H? $85K

Edited to ask: How long was MM married before starting your EMR? 10 years

How old are you? 19 soon to be 20
How old is MM? (Not married but, very taken, engaged) 27
If you are married, how old is H? 21

What level of education did you complete?
MM? High school and some tech school
H? Hich school and tech school

What is your personal income range.
MM? 15,000 yr
H? Who knows. Too lazy to stay in a job long enough to figure that out

Edited to ask: How long was MM married before starting your EMR? Not married, just been with her for about 2 years give or take a little

How old are you? 34
How old is MM? 45
If you are married, how old is H? not married

What level of education did you complete? Bachelor's
MM? Bachelor's
H?

What is your personal income range. $60,000
MM? $80,000
H?

Edited to ask: How long was MM married before starting your EMR? 7 years

How old are you?
35

How old is MM?
36

If you are married, how old is H? I'm single

What level of education did you complete? bachelors degree
MM? apprenticeship

What is your personal income range. $48K
MM? $70K


Edited to ask: How long was MM married before starting your EMR? 10-11yrs

How old are you? 36
How old is MM? 35
If you are married, how old is H? 37

What level of education did you complete? 4 years college
MM? 4 years college
H? HS, some college

What is your personal income range. 60k
MM? 85k
H? 40k

Edited to ask: How long was MM married before starting your EMR?

2 years

How old are you?
32
How old is MM?
43

If you are married, how old is H?
41

What level of education did you complete?
masters
MM?
bachelors (maybe masters, never asked)
H?
bachelors

What is your personal income range.
$80,000-$120000 depending on how much work i get my butt doing
MM?
not sure probably $150-250,000
H?
$100,000
Edited to ask: How long was MM married before starting your EMR?
12 years

How old are you? 20
How old is MM? 37
If you are married, how old is H? n/a

What level of education did you complete? In process of obtaining BA
MM? BA
H? n/a

What is your personal income range? 21-23K due to full time school status
MM? 50k-70k
H? n/a

Edited to ask: How long was MM married before starting your EMR? Between 10 and 15 years. However, I'm not his first OW.

I'm 21
He's 28
I'm engaged, fiance is 25

This is my last year in undergrade
MM is an OB/GYN and p/t paramedic for fun
Fiance is in last year or Law School.

I'm a poor, unemployed college student.
MM makes a little less than 100,000
Fiance just signed a contract for 95,000

MM married for 6 years.

How old are you? 31
How old is MM? 42
If you are married, how old is H? NA

What level of education did you complete? M.S.
MM? B.S.
H?

What is your personal income range. 65,000
MM? 150,000
H?

Edited to ask: How long was MM married before starting your EMR? 17 years

How old are you? 24
How old is MM?42
If you are married, how old is H?not married in a 6 year relationship

What level of education did you complete? enrolled in college now
MM? college
H?college

What is your personal income range.29000
MM?45000
H?57000

How old are you? 36
How old is MM? 43
If you are married, how old is H?

What level of education did you complete? BS
MM? MBA
H?

What is your personal income range. 200+
MM? 150+
H?

Edited to ask: How long was MM married before starting your EMR? 5 years

How old are you? 33
How old is MW? 46
If you are married, how old is H?

What level of education did you complete? 2 Master's
MW? high school
Her H-- college

What is your personal income range. $40,000
MW and her H: $80,000
Edited to ask: How long was MW married before starting your EMR? 18 years

I'm 35
He's 43
I'm divorced.

Level of Education-
Me- High school grad, w/tech awards.
Him- High school grad

Income-
Me-about $42,000
Him-about $28,000 ??

He was into 18th year of marriage b4 EMR with me.

How old are you? 30
How old is MM? 34
If you are married, how old is H? N/A

What level of education did you complete? Associates
MM? Some College
H? N/A

What is your personal income range. $35K - $40K
MM? $45K - $60K
H? N/A

Edited to ask: How long was MM married before starting your EMR? 4 years

How old are you? 30
How old is MM? 50
If you are married, how old is H? n/a

What level of education did you complete? Master's
MM? some college
H? n/a

What is your personal income range.
MM? 60k
H? unemployed

Edited to ask: How long was MM married before starting your EMR? 17 years

How old are you? 25
How old is MM? 49
If you are married, how old is H? N/A

What level of education did you complete? Bachelors
MM? Bachelors
H? N/A

What is your personal income range. 35k
MM? 60k
H? N/A

Edited to ask: How long was MM married before starting your EMR? 28 years

Comparative Stats


How old are you? 49
How old is MM? 54
If you are married, how old is H? 48

What level of education did you complete? Master of Art
MM? Juris Doctorate
H? Master of Science

What is your personal income range. 60k
MM? 130,000k
H? 75,000

Edited to ask: How long was MM married before starting your EMR? 12

I am 40
He is 36
I am not married
I have had some college
He has a Bachelors degree (in What I don't know)
I make $49,000.00 a year
He makes about 55,000 a year
He's been married for 10 years?

How old are you? 38
How old is MM? 34
If you are married, how old is H? 38

What level of education did you complete? BS in Journalism and some Post-grad work
MM? High School
H? BS in Television Production

What is your personal income range. $38k
MM? $52k
H? $46k

Edited to ask: How long was MM married before starting your EMR? 10 years

How old are you? 34
How old is MM? 38
How old is H? 38

Level of education? I am currently in Pharmacy School (2 years to go), but I aready have a B.A. in Biology.
MM? MBA (I think)
H? MBA

Income
Mine and H = 95,000/yr.
MM? unsure

MM's hasa currently been married for almost 6 years. We just started EMR this past spring. However, this is not the first EMR he has had during this marriage (his 3rd).

I am 45
xMM is 41
No H

I completed College
xMM completed University

My income 80k range
xMM income 120k range

I am 39 he is 59. I have an advanced degree in administration and he has a Ph. D. He was married 30 years before we were intimate. We both make over six figures.

I am 29 (28 when the A started)
He is 40
I'm not married

We both have a masters-level education

My income range is $50-60K
His income range was much higher. I think probably around $200 K. He took a massive paycut b/c this job interested him.

He was married nearly 3 years. With his W 8 years all together.

I am 37 married for 16 years My husband is 36. My MM is 47 and was married for 18 years before EMR. Have been together 1 year

How old are you? 21
How old is MM? 39

What level of education did you complete? Some College
MM? He has his Master's

What is your personal income range. $25,000
MM? $50,000

How long was MM married before starting your EMR? 2 years

How old are you? 30
How old is MM? 43
If you are married, how old is H? N/A

What level of education did you complete? Bachelors Degree
MM? High School
H?

What is your personal income range. $50,000
MM? $50,000+
H?

Edited to ask: How long was MM married before starting your EMR? 9 years

How old are you? 59
How old is MM? 63
If you are married, how old is H? N/A

What level of education did you complete? Bachelors Degree
MM? MBA
H?

What is your personal income range. $65,000
MM? retired
H?

Edited to ask: How long was MM married before starting your EMR? 5 years

How old are you? 37
How old is MM? 43
If you are married, how old is H? N/A

What level of education did you complete?
MM? Post Grad/Professional
H? Degree, BA

What is your personal income range. $110-125k
MM? $150k approx
H?

Edited to ask: How long was MM married before starting your EMR? 8 years

MM - 26
Me - 40

MM - 60K +
Me - 30K

MM - BA
Me - Some college

How old are you? 33
How old is MM? 43


What level of education did you complete? Some College / Industry Specific Licensing
MM?Some College / Industry Specific Licensing

What is your personal income range.75k
MM?70k

How long was MM married before starting your EMR? 20+years

Me: 20
MM: 36
I'm not married

My education: H.S.
His: He went to University but didn't finish for reasons unknown

Me: 20,000
MM: 35,000


Haha, I thought our age difference was pretty bad but some other are in the same boat so it's nice to know I'm not alone in the world!

How old are you? 24
How old is MM? 36
If you are married, how old is H? Not applicable

What level of education did you complete?
MM? Masters
H? Bachelor of Science

What is your personal income range.
MM? 100K
H? 70K

Edited to ask: How long was MM married before starting your EMR? He is not married. He has a serious girlfriend and has me as his mistress on the side. They had already been together for two years.

How old are you? 27
How old is MM? 30
If you are married, how old is H? n/a

What level of education did you complete? 4 yr degree
MM? 2 yr degree
H? n/a

What is your personal income range. $43,000
MM? $40,000
H?

Edited to ask: How long was MM married before starting your EMR? 7 years, 10 months

Happily involved...for now...

Age:
me: 30
Him: 42
xH: 34

education:
me: both undergraduate and professional degrees
him: undergraduate degree

Income:
me: $100k
him: $50k

He was married for 10 years when I met him.

How old are you? 38
How old is MM? 33
If you are married, how old is H? soon to be XH is 63

What level of education did you complete? 2 bachelor degrees - science and education
MM? Masters in Education
H? High school

What is your personal income range. $90,000
MM? $105,000
H? $40,000 (retired on pension)

MM was married for 6 years before A started. I had been married for 9.

How old are you? 27
How old is MM? 48
If you are married, how old is H? 29

What level of education did you complete? 3 bachelor degrees - science and education
MM? HIGH SCHOOL
H? High school

What is your personal income range. $50,000
MM? $120,000
H? $30,000

MM was married for 12 years before WE started. I had been married for 9.

How old are you? just turned 42


How old is MM? 44


If you are married, how old is H? separated... H is 39

What level of education did you complete? HS grad


MM? electrical engineering degree


H? HS grad



What is your personal income range.

MM? $160k/year

H? $32k/year

Edited to ask: How long was MM married before starting your EMR? 19 years

How old are you? 35
How old is MM? 37
If you are married, how old is H? N?A

What level of education did you complete? Tertiary
MM? junior secondary


What is your personal income range. 75000
MM? 55000 (AUS)

How long was MM married before starting your EMR? 13 years

How old are you? 43
How old is MM? 38
If you are married, how old is H? N/A

What level of education did you complete? Voc-Tech
MM? Some college


What is your personal income range. $32,000.00
MM? 60,000.00

How long was MM married before starting your EMR? 16 years

Im 50
MM 54
I am separated H is 57

Im completed college
MM completed University
H High school

Me 35 K
MM 90K
H 30K

Married man was married 27 years when affair started

How old are you? 42
How old is MM? 45
If you are married, how old is H? n/a

What level of education did you complete? high school
MM? technical college
H?

What is your personal income range. 14k
MM? dont know, but considerably more
H?

Edited to ask: How long was MM married before starting your EMR?

14yrs

How old are you? 22
How old is MM? 32
I'm unmarried

What level of education did you complete? Still doing my Masters in Media & Communication
MM? BSc. (Dropped out of Masters)

What is your personal income range. I'm still studying full time.
MM? A lot.

Edited to ask: How long was MM married before starting your EMR? i think a yr and a half

How old are you? 27
How old is MM? 38
If you are married, how old is H? N/A

What level of education did you complete? BA, working towards Master's
MM? BS
H? N/C

What is your personal income range. $35,000
MM? No idea.
H? N/A

Edited to ask: How long was MM married before starting your EMR? 13 years

Me: 36
MM: 44
exH: 40

Me: BS
MM: PhD

Me: $150k+
MM: $110k

MM Length of marriage when EA started: 14 years

How old are you? 36
How old is MM? 39

If you are married, how old is H?
Single

What level of education did you complete? Graduate level
MM? Undergraduate level

What is your personal income range. $50k
MM? $100k+

How long was MM married before starting your EMR?
3 1/2 yrs

How old are you? 45
How old is MM? 57
If you are married, how old is H?

What level of education did you complete? bachelors degree
MM? assoc
H? grad degree

What is your personal income range.50-80K
MM?50-80 K
H? 250K

Edited to ask: How long was MM married before starting your EMR?

32 yrs

How old are you? 21
How old is MM? 49
If you are married, how old is H?

What level of education did you complete?
MM? BA + JD
H? BA

What is your personal income range.n/a (student)
MM? $1M +
H? n/a

How old are you? 28
How old is MM? 36
If you are married, how old is H? n/a

What level of education did you complete? A.A. (2 yr degree, completing my BA currently)
MM? B.S.
H? n/a

What is your personal income range. $50K
MM? $100K+
H? n/a

Edited to ask: How long was MM married before starting your EMR? 13 years

Age: 38
MM age: 45
H age: 38

Education:
Me: college degree
MM: some college, Military
H: college degree

Income range:
Me: 30,000 +
MM: 49,000+
H: 45,000

Years married:
MM: 22

How old are you? 45
How old is MM? 58
If you are married, how old is H? (divorced, xH is 53

What level of education did you complete? Ph.D.
MM? Ph.D.
H? xH: Ph.D.

What is your personal income range. $100K
MM? $100K+
H? xH: $100K+

How long was MM married before starting your EMR? 30 years

How old are you?
during the affair I was 24.



How old is MM?
he was also 24




If you are married, how old is H?
he was 24



What level of education did you complete?
some college

MM?
high school

H?
11th grade


What is your personal income range.
at the time I was a stay home mom

MM?
he was 4 years Navy

H?
he was 4 years Marines


Edited to ask: How long was MM married before starting your EMR?
We got married to our respective spouses the same year. We were married 4 years before the affair started.

How old are you? 39
How old is MM? 48
If you are married, how old is H? Divorced

What level of education did you complete? Almost an AS
MM? BS

What is your personal income range. Currently a full-time student and only work pt so - $13k year
MM? No idea

How long was MM married before starting your EMR? 15 years

How old are you? I'm now 63
How old is MM? He is 52


What level of education did you complete? Master's level
MM? Tech school


What is your personal income range? 60,000 - 70,000
MM? about the same


Edited to ask: How long was MM married before starting your EMR?

We started when I was 40 and he was 29 - can you believe that? At that time he had been married about 7 years. We lost contact after a 4 year affair and reconnected 18 years later... he is still married (to the same woman) and I am still single

How old are you? 47
How old is MM? 50


What level of education did you complete? Professional degree + Masters
MM? Bachelors


What is your personal income range. 140K+
MM?250K+


Edited to ask: How long was MM married before starting your EMR? 21 years

How old are you?
35
How old is MM?
43
If you are married, how old is H?
43

What level of education did you complete?
High school
MM? High School
H? High School

What is your personal income range. $50k
MM? $70k
H? $70k

Edited to ask: How long was MM married before starting your EMR? 20 years

How old are you?29
How old is MM?37
If you are married, how old is H?

What level of education did you complete?HS
MM? BA
H?

What is your personal income range.unemployment right now got laid off 6 months ago. THank goodness he helps me out with bills.
MM?90k plus bonus
H?

Edited to ask: How long was MM married before starting your EMR? he was with his gf 5 months.

How old are you? 47
How old is MM? 47
If you are married, how old is H? 52

What level of education did you complete? Masters
MM? PhD
H? BS

What is your personal income range. $80K
MM? $125 - 130K
H? $110K

Edited to ask: How long was MM married before starting your EMR? 15 years

How old are you? 32
How old is MM? 32
If you are married, how old is H? 32

What level of education did you complete? Ph. D.
MM? B.S.
H? M.S.

What is your personal income range. $182,000
MM? 56,000
H? 54,000

Edited to ask: How long was MM married before starting your EMR? 7 years

How old are you? 31
How old is MM? 30

What level of education did you complete? M.A.
MM? B.A.

What is your personal income range. $75,000
MM? $40,000

How long was MM married before starting your EMR? Three whole months. (What a gem.)

(It's over now.)

I'm 40
H 45
MM 59

I am 31. He is 45.
We both have masters' degrees. His income is approx. 70,000, mine is approx. 90,000. He was married for 19 years.

How old are you? 38
How old is MM? 46
If you are married, how old is H? I am D.

What level of education did you complete? College
MM? College


What is your personal income range 150k
MM? 400k


How long was MM married before starting your EMR? 12 years

How old are you? 53

How old is MM? 60

If you are married, how old is H? 71

What level of education did you complete? PhD

MM? BA
H? BA

What is your personal income range. $175,000.
MM? 100,000.
H? 125,000.

Edited to ask: How long was MM married before starting your EMR? 9 Years

How old are you? 41
How old is MM? 48
If you are married, how old is H? 42

What level of education did you complete? Bachelors
MM? Bachelors
H? Masters

What is your personal income range.
MM? I have no idea
H? Over 100K

Edited to ask: How long was MM married before starting your EMR? 15+ years

im 19
mm 29
me a firefighting/emt student/waitress
mm firefighter/paramedic
married 2 kids
me dateing around no kids
mm house in a nice suburb
apartment and a roomate

How old are you?
28


How old is MM?
33


If you are married, how old is H?
not married.


What level of education did you complete?
MM - High School
H - High School



What is your personal income range.
MM - 50k
H - 36k

Edited to ask: How long was MM married before starting your EMR?

How old are you? - 40
How old is MM? - 40
If you are married, how old is H? - n/a

What level of education did you complete? - college, environmental
MM? - trade
H? - n/a

What is your personal income range. - 80K
MM? - 120K
H? - n/a

Edited to ask: How long was MM married before starting your EMR? - 9years

I am 21.
He is 46.
I am not married.

I am finishing my BA.
He is finishing his MA.

My personal income is around 10k (full-time student).
His, my guess. would be around 200k.

MM was married 16 years before we started our EMA.

How old are you? 47
How old is MM? 47
If you are married, how old is H?

What level of education did you complete? Masters degree
MM? high school
H?

What is your personal income range. 80-95K
MM? 40K
H?

Edited to ask: How long was MM married before starting your EMR?
21 years

How old are you? 40
How old is MM?40
If you are married, how old is H?40 (divorcing)

What level of education did you complete?
MM?High school
H? High School

What is your personal income range.
MM?20,-25,000
H?70,000

Edited to ask: How long was MM married before starting your EMR? 9 years