What was/is sex like with MM? Had you experienced anything like it before? What does he say about making love/having sex with you?

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Sex with MM was phenomenal. He wasnt "the best", but it was the best because it was with him. NOt sure if that makes any sense. In other words, there was nothing "special" that he did, but yet nobody else came close to comparing. There was always alot of talking and playing involved, and partly because we knew each other so well, and even from the very first time we were so comfortable around each other, we could tell each other anything, and werent afriad to say something - good, bad, or neutral.

As far as things he said... well... we always called it "making like". For 5 years we never said we loved each other, and it was kind of a mutual agreement/understnading that we wouldnt say making love unless thats truly what it was. When we were together the first time, exclusively & we were both single, he did one time say "i want to make love'... i tried correcting him and his response was "no... i meant what i said.. i want to make love". I melted. I knew without him even saying it that he was trying to say he was falling in love. Then.. 5 years later, he finally told me he loved me, and from then on it was classified as "making love". And i can say that with him has been the only time ive "made love" to anybody.

As i said, we were very open. We had a blast when it came to sex... we just soooo enjoyed it with one another. Wether it was planned or spontaneous... it was amazing and just so much fun. During the second round when we were sexually involved, him being married, wed sometimes have to go weeks without seeing each other, especially alone. Wed make lists, write little letters to each other to "tempt" the other one, etc. Hes since moved, and before he left, we each made lists of things (mostly sexual) that we never got to do with each other and that we wanted to do. Simple silly things: have sex on the kitchen counter, have sex on the bathroom couner, have sex in the tub, in the shower (again), by the beach, in front of a window, etc...
Because our relationship never really revolved around sex, there was alot left undone. We were usually hurried, or couldnt wait for the right opportunities (or even wait to get to the other side of the room where the window was lol) so we just had alot of "unfinished business". Also... MM was sort of a "quick draw" (not always but usually) especially much more so once he got married. True that I didnt help it any, Id tease him and play with him alot before wed actually have sex and he just couldnt handle it. But that made me all the more excited when hed get off so quickly. Besides... theres alwyas round two

We were so much more "compatible" sex-wise than anybody else ive ever been with. He says the same, and says nobody has ever excited him the same way.

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It's perfection. I have never in my live experienced love making with a man like him. He has, from day one made me feel cherished. Of course, we do have our 'hit and run' days...those are kinda fun on occasion...but...I have to say...I have NEVER been so fulfilled.

I asked him once...do we have sex or make love? He said that he thought that you had to have no feelings for your partner to 'have sex', and that we definetely made love

ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

nice and comfortable.

the first night we were together, I hopped into bed butt nekkid, and he was surprised. He joined me butt nekkid, and we just laid there all night, all wrapped up in each other.

Nothing sexual until the next night (early morning). But once he decided that the aforementioned boundry wasn't working---YeeHaw Cowboy.

We've been living together 1 1/2 years now, and sex is still good--we boink maybe 1 or 2 times a week if that. I get paranoid that we don't boink enough for him, but he says he is statisfied.

Sex with MM is the best that I have. We both think we are made for each other. It is just too perfect. He loves having sex with me. On average, we have sex about 3-4 times a day everytime when we see each other.

What was/is sex like with MM? Had you experienced anything like it before? What does he say about making love/having sex with you?

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Incredible in so many ways. No, not experienced anything like it before. He had never had sex like that with anyone and it was the emotional end that ignited it all....the trust of who we were inside with each other that made it so wonderful. We had so much fun with it, so much passion and so much healing....



Please use this section to say anything and everything you want to tell the world about your experience of making love/having sex with MM.

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Sex was complicated in a way. He had literally been abused my his wife over sexual issues. Publically and privately. It took a long time and a lot of work to find that place in him. As an act itself at first it wasn't graded so high, but the emotional level made it so powerful and finally his heart and ego healed and he became a condident man. It really was something to be a part of in that way. To see someone find themselves and heal something that had cut so deeply into his soul. Amazing....

After our initial face to face meeting, I was very curious about how he was in bed because he really turned me on just listening to him and looking at him. After spending a few more dates together getting to know each other better, we knew that sex was the next step and I could hardly stand it anymore... I really wanted to see him naked. Watching him undress was torture for me, I tell ya! I almost tore off his shirt. What a body! I can hardly believe this guy is 47 with a body like that! He has had a vasectomy but we use condoms as well. When we finally "did the deed" I knew he was definitely worth the wait. He's not too big, not too small... just right and wonderful and knows what to do with it. He knows what a woman likes and is the most sensuous lover I have ever had. Sometimes our sessions are fabulous lovemaking together lasting for hours and I love it. Sometimes we just like to fuck and I love that too. He is open to experimentation and different positions, which I find maddeningly sexy about him. He loves hot lingerie, whipped cream, toys, lotions, spanking, massages, oral sex, whatever! We fantasize about public places for sex, but have only been bold enough for a blowjob in the back seat of his car in a parking lot after a theatre show, which was a first and every erotic experience for him. We have also fantasized about threesomes and swinger parties. Of course he says I am the best lover has ever had (what man doesn't say that?) but I know he means it. I can scarcely imagine his wife enjoying him in bed nearly as much as I do. Boy, what she's missing!!!

Well sex was good. It was very emotional, like truly making love. And if you want to talk about the pure raw sex of it all, well, lets say I did things he had never done before and things she wouldn't do anymore. He said he felt as if his toes actually curled, lol. But more than anything, just being together, We both said that, how nice just to be alone, and to TALK, god, that was always good, the talking, non stop as if we had a life time to cram in, and in just a few hours.

The sex is the best I have ever experienced. We have been together for 5 years and it still gets better. We spend 3 or 4 nights a week together and have sex 2 or 3 times a night . We can't keep our hands off each other, even after all this time.

We joke about how it should be boring and routine by now...hasn't happened yet.

Sex with my MW is, for lack of a better word, incredible. She knows me inside out, what buttons to push when, and in what order. She's open to anything, I care to suggest, even though I'm not all that adventurous. For me, I'd always termed it "Making Love" but for her, sex and making love were interchangeable. Still, I could not ask for anything more in a lover, since I think we've discovered the greatest secret of all: it's all about the other.

When we make love, I do everything I can to make sure she is happy, satified, and feels loved. I ask for nothing. She does the exact same for me. In the beginning of our relationship (8 months ago) it was very intense, and now eight months later, it hasn't cooled of at all. Although there are many times when we prefer to be soft and sensual with each other.

But by far, the one defining thing about our sex life, is the three words she tells me every now and then: "I trust you." She almost brings me to tears when she says those words, because they are synonymous with I love you.

The sex was unbelievably, obsessively, deeply erotic. We are addicted to the utterly abandoned, uninhibited and sometimes animalistic way we have sex together. We are junkies for each other. That has not diminished at all even though the affair has been over for months. I still use the present tense when I talk about it, because nothing has changed about the erotic connection.

He said the way we have sex is "real" sex, and everything else is "shadow sex". I say we are equals, we have each met our match. Nothing else will ever be like it.

I can honestly say that sex with xMM was always fun and funny. He was a great lover. Very considerate and giving. We'd laugh, play, horse around, make love, cuddle, laugh some more.

I just KNEW that MM was going to be a wonderful lover by the way he carried himself when we first met. A 100% classy gentleman all the way. The kind of guy all men should be like!
MM loves foreplay and so do I, so our first lovemaking session was mindblowing and, must have lasted for hours. I love the sounds of pleasure that he makes, and very much enjoy his beautiful body. He makes me feel so very special all the time, yet even more when we are lying naked together, devouring each other sexually. We love hot soapy showers together, which inevitably leads to sex, but can be a bit difficult because he is about six inches taller than me, but it works out somehow... . We both enjoy oral sex and have even watched an X-rated movie or two together. We got real adventurous one night and stopped into a strip club and had lap dances! We have such a great time together in bed and I can hardly wait until our next naked adventure.

The most unbelieveable experience of my life: every time. Someone else wrote "we are junkies for each other": that's how it feels for us. I cannot get enough of him and he seems to feel the same. It's the unbelievcable way we fit together, the immersion in the sensuality, the incredible closeness, and the pure unabashed lust that we both feel. I can honestly say that there is nothing like doing it with him, and never could be. His body, and his "equipment" ARE unbelieveably fantastic, but that's not it. It's just the incredible way my body feels when we are together. I can't describe it at all...! We do do thinghs together that we don't do/haven't done with others. I feel so utterly free with him.

He said to me the other day that he could not remember sex before me, I feel the same. It doesn't feel like we actually I actually got the point before I went to bed with him...

He was the first man I ever made love to and it was perfect the first time and it only gets better as we go along.

He was my first (saved myself til my mid 20's) first man that is. I had been pleasuring myself for years prior to that.

He is awesome. Any guy that can do for me what I do for myself it the Bomb! I had had oral w/others but they could never get me off. MM is awesome in all ways.

We have done every position imaginable...In a lot of crazy places.

He says he's never been w/anyone as good..I couldn't believe that at first not being so experienced but after hearing some stories of who he has been with I can believe him.

He gets angry if I refer to our sessions as sex he insists they are definatley love making!

When I met MM, the sex was good (He has PLENTY to work with), but lacked in duration, but I think that was a trick...

Now, He is SOOOOOOOO Incredible! After 2 years, he knows every spot on my body that makes me shiver! He knows how to use his hands and mouth like no other. He kisses with such passion that it actually takes my breath away! He is gentle and makes love when I want, and he can be an outright animal if that is the kind of mood I am in! He stares into my eyes as if he is looking into my soul. He worships my body as if it is the most perect body on the planet. He has a desire in him that I did not know could exist in a man. I can't possibly ever ask for anything else in a lover!

As for the duration, well, let's just say that after the standard 3 or 4 times in one night, each time lasting 30 - 40 minutes, NOT INCLUDING FOREPLAY!, I am usually the one begging him to stop. He says he never had any endurance until me, and from our first time until now, I believe it. That one, I pat myself on the back for!

I have to ellaborate on my previous answer...

The one thing that drives me absolutely wild is when we are in the shower together (I have this thing with water so I customed designed my shower - no tub - and it runs the entire length of the bathroom - VERY ROOMY!) and he will come up behind me and put his arms around me and I will lay my head back on his chest. He will just start to kiss my neck and back and I will put my arms back around his neck and he will stand there silently with the hot water running on both of us. It is SO erotic. I know this sounds weird, but sometimes, he will help me shave my legs and other things, or I will help shave his head. Just the trust issue with that is a turn on! From there, we will either drop down onto the floor in the shower, or get out and go at it right on the sink top, or take it into the bedroom, still soaking wet.

Other times, we will start wrestling playfully while sitting on the sofa and one thing leads to another and it will happen right there.

We will watch adult movies and enact them.

Once, we had sex on one of the fire trucks at the station house when no one was there (thank God!) because it got so intense, my foot hit the "Cherry" button and all the lights started flashing on the truck. I thank God my foot wasn't by the sirens!

We were visiting my parents house last summer. We were out on the back porch and it was raining. I had on a white tee-shirt with no bra and decided to entice him and stood in the cold rain. The look on his face and the reaction of his body.... When we got to my home, we had the best sex yet!

It was always incredible! Always the best! The man has no shame about anything and I learned not to either. There were times when I thought that maybe it was so good b/c it was an affair. Now that he's divorced, it's even better!

Sex with MM was and is the best I have ever had in my life! It is so different when you are actually making love to someone and not just going through the motions of sex. He says the same thing to me! We have been together for six years and the love making just gets better with time!

I've certainly had more experienced lovers in my life ... MM is good enough so that I don't want to turn him out into the street. Very passionate and "into" it - I think this has to do with being very young, tho. The deal closer for me is the chemistry between us. It's very primal, and doesn't seem to be fading, even after a year. I hope to teach the boy a few things before this thing is over ...

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The first time we snuck away to a room, MM couldn't get an erection! I thought "Uh,oh, this is great! We're done before we even get started. But he made up for it in other ways and it was fantastic! At first he said it wasn't because he felt guilty about W, but later admitted it might have been.

This actually assured me that it really was the first time he had been unfaithful to W. Now I'm not so sure.

Even when we weren't having sex, just kissing, or even touching, the electricity was incredible. I miss that the most.

I never had sex with a man before I met MM, so I gave him my virginity. It hurt at first, but afterwards, it felt so good! We do it alot whenever we have the chance. Sometimes it's everyday. He knew I was a virgin, he never stops thanking me for giving him such a precious gift. Wonder if I did the right thing..

Sex with MM is better than sex with anybody I have ever been with, and that's saying a lot. I'm fairly experienced, as are most of the men I've been with. But MM and I just feel like we are "made for each other", sexually. He is exactly what I want a guy to be in bed - he does everything I like and enjoys doing it, and he seems able to predict what I want at any given time without my having to tell him. He also clearly devotes a lot of spare-time thought to imagining what my fantasies might be and trying to fulfill them - he is always trying little unexpected things that are amazing and that I would never have imagined myself, but they're always wonderful.

For his part, he can't stop raving about how wonderful I am. Frankly, thats not the first time I've heard that (sex is the one thing I have confidence about in my life - I know I'm good at it), but it's interesting for me to hear exactly what it is about me that he finds so remarkable because they're things that don't seem at all unusual to me - like the fact that I desire and appreciate intercourse, not just foreplay, or the fact that I have a very active libido. He is also very experienced, so that makes it even weirder to me - I guess I've always thought that most women were similar in their appreciation and desire for sex these days - but he says no. He also says he's never been with a woman who has complimented his sexual performance at all, and constantly expresses disbelief that it could "REALLY be that good" whenever I'm complimenting him. Personally, I can't believe there's not a crowd of past lovers hounding him for just one more time, because sex with him is the one thing about our relationship that I've consistently found almost impossible to give up, no matter how happy I am emotionally with someone else. All he has to do is whisper the right thing in my ear and I totally want to jump him, damn the conseqeunces.

The sex with MM is the best I've ever had, but not because he's the best lover technically (I've had better -- he's usually the recipient rather than the giver of pleasure) but because I love him and because there is chemistry. I love the way he smells and feels, I love giving him pleasure and I love having him inside me. We do it five - six times per encounter (which has never been a full 24 hour period), even though he's 50. We're also compatible in what we like in bed (neither one of us is into a lot of dirty talk or anything really kinky)and I like that he's gets assertive but not aggressive. Also, he likes my whole body, not just certain parts like other men have. We make love, that's what's so wonderful about it, which I only did on about three-four occasions with my husband.

Interestingly, as good as the sex is, and although it gets better every time and I desire him more every time, i've never had an orgasm with him. With my husband, the orgasms were incredibly easy and frequent, despite the fact that it was usually sex not love. So what does this mean?

Also, MM acknowledges that he's the recipient of my lovemaking and kissing and doesn't seem at all ashamed or embarrassed or guilty about this. Why? Is that the attraction -- that it's all receiving and no giving for him, and that I derive such pleasure in giving? He has mentioned that even if he weren't married he wouldn't be the best boyfriend and would I love him anyway. He has also mentioned that his wife has a whole laundry list of complaints about all the ways in which he's selfish. Is this one of them?

Reading the other posts in this section, I wonder if it's the nature of the affair (illicit) that makes it so good, since these posts are all so similar in saying that it's the best sex we've ever had.

It is the best nothing less. So passionate. I crave him like a dog in heat. I am serious. Wow!! Can't even write about it. He better come see me tonight.

He and I have never had intercourse
But when he performs oral on me I am definitely in heaven and he enjoys doing it so much more than any other man I've been with. He is amazing.

I have learned that sex with love is an amazing feeling. Unfortunately I enjoy it more often than him. I'm ALWAYS in the mood, maybe its because I am 40 now? He is happy with once a week or two, and cuddling the rest of the days, but perhaps I can change that! LOL

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We had the most incredible mind bending sex I have ever experienced. I had only been with one man before, so I had no comparison. I was the world's best actress with my ex....
I don't have to pretend with MM. He touches me and I melt.

Every time we made love, it was amazing. Passionate, intense. He would touch me and it was like electricity would shoot through both of us. We did things together neither of us had never done before, never wanted to do, that with him just felt wonderful and natural.

He finds me very attractive, he was ready to go every time we were together, but he knew I was trying to behave and he would often just hold me. I am very attracted to him as well. I find him handsome. and I am attracted to his kindness, intelligence, and humor. He has the amazing added benefit of being incredibly well endowed.... if you know what I mean. I didn't know a man could be so, well, big...Throw in his ability to make love for four hours straight, no kidding, I'm telling the truth... He is amazing... wow...

He is a hard lover to give up, emotionally and physically.

the sex is awesome. truly awesome. I've had quite a few lovers in my lifetime and this man is hands down the best. I like the "dog in heat" analogy someone used- god is that true. After almost 2 years, and so many orgasms I can't possibly count, his voice makes me hot. so, why...

because it is so clearly about making love, everything he does is about expressing how he FEELS about me, from the fact that we are both so into making the other cum we almost forget about ourselves so it is one mindblowing orgasm after another for hours, to the little things-

- sometimes in the middle of making love he will grab my hand and intertwine our fingers just before orgasm
- every once in a while he'll grab my foot (when it's up around his neck) and suck on my toes while I cum to make me cum and giggle at the same time
- he whispers "I love you" before, during and after orgasm
- he loves to cuddle, caress and talk for hours after

so it's the combination of expressing his love through incredible passion and tender little things

and it doesn't hurt that he stays hard after orgasm and can cum several times in a row over the course of several hours before losing his erection.

ok, I have to stop typing now!

I think I could write for hours about our sex life. My exH had very little interest, as did his W. My sepMM and I are both very tactile, sexual people. And now we boink like bunnies: it's all part of our whole sensual relationship.
We took a few months before actually sleeping together, and the for a while it was nice, a little awkward. And as we grew more in love, it got more amazing. We communicate well as a couple, and it carried over into the bedroom.
He is by far the most affectionate, unselfish, erotic lover Ive ever had.

I can't say that I've ever had sex like this with anyone.

It isn't a matter of specific skill, number of orgasms, length of time, size of his penis, there is nothing extra-ordinary about it looking at it from the outside.

I'm not one of those soul mate people, so I don't think that is it. I can't explain the depth, the intimacy, the security that I feel with him.

He makes me feel beautiful and sexy.

He said once that sex with his wife is purely routine. Sex with me is about pleasure and enjoyment.

It is UN-BE-LIE-VA-BLE!!!
He is more into the foreplay then the act itself.....Which is wonderful for me......He likes to massage and loosen up my muscles....He does that forever.....At that point I am like putty in his hands.......Then he can go "downtown" for HOURS!!!!!!! And boy is he amazing it........
Then the actual act itself.....WOW!!!!!!
He's got kind of an issue with uh-keeping it up occassionally, I guess you could say, but when he does he sure knows how to use it........And it's like being in very vivid pastel colors......I mean, it's intense, and that's how it feels...Like I am floating somewhere in these pretty colors....I love it.....Sometimes even he can make me get off just by talking and some of the things he says.....It's always been like this since day one.....Most guys need a map on how to please a woman, but he made me have the most intense Big "O" that I have ever had in my life from the very first time......He is AMAZING....
He's damn near perfect....

We had sex on our first 'coffee date'. It stunned me that I would do this, but it was not my first affair either. He was so gentle and passionate and Oh my gawd he was huge! It scared me at first, but once we came together it was totally incredible. Without a doubt the best sex i have ever had - and continue to have. I get all excited just thinking about him!

From the start he referred to it as making love. And we do. His focus is entirely on my pleasure - whatever I like, need, want. He wants me to be happy. He wants to do it right. It is the best I've had because I am finally with someone who cares that I enjoy it, and knows how to help me enjoy it. He tells me that he is the way he is because of me - so it's just right all over I'd say.

Sex with MM was pretty good . In all honesty I love his body and the way he felt inside of me was too good for words .

The only thing that I had issues with ,was that he was too quiet during sex . If I had asked him specific things like "Do you like this ,or that" he litteraly would not answer me . He wasn't very comfortable with being verbal but I loved the way he felt .

He was one of the best i've ever had mainly because he could go on and on and that was such a nice change from what i'm use to with my H . With my H ,sex is done almost as fast as it begins . Plus xmm loved to kiss a lot and my H does not . I am a big fan of kissing .

My first MM the sex was exciting-he really didn't fufill me, ever, but I get off on watching others get off. My second MM(chronic homewreckers, unite) is much more concerned with making sure I have a good time-much more kissing. My first MM hardly ever kissed me, it gave me a complex. And he wouldn't go down on me although LOVED when I did it. Both have said I'm fun in bed, highly sexual and it makes me attractive.

What was/is sex like with MM?

Incredible. Sensual. Emotional. Satisfying.

Had you experienced anything like it before?

NEVER!

I never felt more loved in my life than when I was with him.

What does he say about making love/having sex with you?

He said he's never felt that way before. When he touches me.. He's never kissed anyone the way he kissed me.
He's never felt before the way he feels when he's with me.
I make him tingle. I make him feel.

The best I have ever had. He is a master! He also allows me to fulfill all of my fantasies.

"What was/is sex like with MM? Had you experienced anything like it before?"
OMG -- explosive -- no uncomfortableness - ever... even the first time. We know just how to get each other going -- agree on the same things and what neither of us likes... My best lover ever!

"What does he say about making love/having sex with you?"
Constantly tells me how good I feel ... that he has never been with someone that fits him so well. hehe

The sexually attraction is what began this whole thing. I'm 20 years old. I wouldn't be considered promiscuous by anyones standards. I had never been sexually attracted to a man upon first sight. I saw my MM and my first thought was, "Good I bet he'd be great in bed". Of course thinking this made put a huge smile on my face. He noticed and asked me what I was smiling about. He had had a long day and wanted to smile as well. Totally out of character, and feeling a bit horny, I told him exactly what I was thinking. I looked at me and laughed and we talked a bit. And we exchanged numbers...

I was right the sex was wonderful and still is, everytime single time. I was raised as a classic politicians daughter. Needless to say, MM has taught me a lot, but I must admit that I'm a natural at things I never knew you could do.

Sex with MM is good,satisfying and ego lifting. To say he's the best I've ever had would not be true. Perhaps with more practice and a better teacher on his behalf . We tend to not talk much unless inarticulate sounds constitute a new language. I suppose he's happy.

Sex with MM is very erotic and very different from anything I have ever experienced. He has held nothing back an has expected no less from me. I actually told him that I had never been f**ked like this before. I can not describe the pleasure I feel when with him. It is absolutely over the top and incredible. I can't wait to be with him again. Unfortuneatly, it may be a while. At least I can dream about it.

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A revelation for both of us. I was the second woman he had ever had (he was 39) and his wife just didn't like sex very much. He thought he was small and that's why she didn't enjoy it but boy is he wrong!

He is a wonderful lover, can last for hours and is ready again straight away after he's cum. He concentrates totally on me and making me feel the most intense pleasure. Sometimes we have fun just bonking but it's also very passionate and emotional. I loved it when I first went down on him and he gasped - he'd never had that before. He was blown away (!) by me enjoying sex so much and actually cumming. He was like a boy in a sweet shop. Each time he would try something new and became more confident and uninhibited. It was a very emotional thing for him. I just loved the way he felt. We would kiss for hours.

I love his body. It is straight and toned and slim and like an Italian statue. The sweetest butt I've ever seen. I love his P. I've never felt that way about one before but his I wanted to kiss and stroke out of sheer affection. He gave the best massage and his oral technique was perfect - he even told me his secret which made me laugh - he traces the letters of the alphabet with his tongue.

Sometimes he found it hard to cum and there was conflict and stress there too. Just two meetings after he revealed to me that he liked pain (nothing wild, just fingernails and biting) he stopped the sex and started to withdraw in other ways.

I guess I'll never know where it was going and if it scared him.

I'm 37 years old and I have never had sex like I did with MM. Unbelievable. I have known men and enjoyed sex but...with him. sigh! My former lovers seemed so vanilla by comparison.
We would email each other...I have hundreds of them. Turning each other on, writing fantasies, sometimes we would take turns writing the same fantasy.
He wanted me like no other man ever has. Every part of me. From kissing me for hours for no reason in the middle of the day to thoughtfully licking his fingers after touching me. God he was good. I mean bad I was for him too. Sex with him put me in a daze, I was completely blissed out the moment I touched him. The orgasms with him were different...I mean I had different kinds. wow. who would have guessed? Fucking was always part but it wasn't the main event, you know? So much energy between us. Just the smell of him on a shirt he left behind could almost send me over the edge. I wanted to do things to(with) him I had never considered with another man. I had no idea where he and I could end up with each other. It was all so damn sweet. We used to joke about living in this place together...we decided it must be in Burma. I wanted him like I have wanted no other man. and it wasn't just sex. we laughed alot, and we were so mesmerized by the mystery of each other.
I thought we would end up in Burma. But his wife and kids...ouch. I couldn't continue once I knew about them. Damn him for taking me to Burma only to leave me there alone. I don't think I can ever forgive him for that. I thought I was so lucky to have found him.....

The sex with my MM is absolutely unbelievable. Like many posters have also said, they can't necessarily pinpoint WHAT about it, makes it so incredible- that is how I feel but I am not going to waste time trying to put my finger on it! It's like we connect on so many different levels and that is what makes it so beautiful. The first time he was inside me was such an amazing feeling and even though we've only been together a couple of times since that first time...it's the same feeling. Just that we "fit" together. Of course, sex with him is amazing, but even more than that is the chemistry we feel when we spend a whole day in bed together, cuddling, talking, laughing...and then doing it over and over again

My mm was 18 years older than I am. I have to say the first time we had sex it was more than quite obvious to me that he hadn't had sex in a VERY long time. Clutzy, ignorant of technique and just plain rusty is what I would call it. I know this is wierd, but even his erection wasn't like it should have been. It was also obvious to me the first time we kissed that he hadn't kissed in a VERY long time either. In retrospect, I now know that the intimate talk following lovemaking between couples also hadn't been taking place in their marriage. As time went on we both opened up and he began asking me questions about how to please me and I in turn asked the same. We made time to be alone together, we made time for calls, he was always available for me to talk to about anything. Following lovemaking we would laugh and talk about personal or life issues such as work & children. Sex turned to lovemaking and a friendship turned into a relationship. The first time I knew it wasn't sex anymore I could tell from the way he linked his hands into mine above my head and kissed me throughout the process and then kissed me all over following orgasm. Plus, he laid beside me and took a nap. When he woke up I could see in his eyes that he didn't want to leave. I told him that I could have that every day from him and later on he reminded me of the comment and said, "you know what you said about wanting me every day, I feel the same for you. I don't know if I should let you know this or not, but I am addicted to you." As far as his body being different now - in the last two years his penis is more erect - almost straight up and he lasts much longer before orgasm. He is still curved but not like he was to begin with. I think to begin with he was just happy to be having sex at all. Maybe that was the role I have played in his life, getting him back to being a normal, sexual, intimate human being. Maybe since we broke up he will fix his marriage with his wife and tell her what he needs to stay o.k. I don't know. I know that he had said he and his wife had "different interests" and were on "kissing terms" i.e. kiss my ass. And, I can honestly say, I knew all of that the first time we had sex. As for what he has done for me sexually, well he has reminded me that I am a woman who does want a full-time relationship/marriage and I won't be the kind of wife who forgets that first and foremost she married a man - a man with sexual and emotional needs throughout his life. I have also learned what qualities I want in a man from being with my mm. So, although I am really sad and feel incredibly lost, at least I know when I do get my knight in shining armour, I won't forget that I am HIS WIFE first and a business partner who plays Let's Make a Deal, last.

Sex with MM is absolutely incredible. I have never experienced anything like it - ever. Sex with my H is good - but not this good. It is hot, fierce and raw. That is the only way to describe it. He definetly knows what he is doing and isn't afraid to go for it. The first time we were together he asked me if "this was what I wanted?" I told him that I had never been f**cked like that before. Now we joke about him having the gold medal and how he hasn't lost it - yet.

Sex was great! Since he was an older married man, his erections were that of an older man. In spite of that, it was wonderful. He was very "matter of fact" about the whole process, there was nothing to feel shy or embarrassed or timid about. He always called it having sex, not making love. Personally, I was making love. He loved to hold me and just be with me before and after. If we did not have sex, it was okay with him. I hated to miss it. We would make sex dates, again no pretense. It wasn't until 16 months had passed that I was aware that I was probably not the only OW, he had been doing this indiscriminately his entire adult life. No wonder it was so common place to him.

Sex with my MM is everything that I need and want. I believe whats makes it so good is our communication. We talk about what we like, what we want each other to do. Nothing is out of bounds. We also role play a lot. He gets me ready by telling me exactly what he wants to do to me. I return the favor and tell him what I am going to do to him so by the time we see each other we are so hot till the sex can't be anything but excellent. We are are not into the "making love" type thing. It's strictly raw and uninhibited, almost animalistic. And after we finish, we talk about it, we tell each other how good it felt what we like/enjoyed about it. Sex with him is very very good. And I wouldn't want it any other way.

Both MM and I agree that we have the best sex each of us has ever had. We have an amazing physical and emotional connection. We have a lot of trust and intimacy. I never brought this up, it was him to tell me that he was "blown away" by our sex, and asked me if I felt the same. It's still just as good, almost 2 years later now.

Sex is absolutely incredible with MM. He has been a man of firsts for me. First multiples, first vaginal O, first 'all-nighter'. Maybe some of it has to do with the 'connection' we undeniably have, but for whatever reason, we just 'fit' together right. LOL He just told me the other day that the only thing I could ever do to irritate him, is to bug him for sex too much. He was being fecicious, of course, but our sexual appetites are completely compatible as well. And that's a wonderful thing in itself.

it's very good.
It's only been about 3 months.... and it can be mind blowing, for sure! I feel retarded afterward.
My Xh and I had sex that at least rivals it. In a lot of ways, my XH and I were mistresses to each other. It was the only good thing about our marriage.
What I like best about MM is how it feels like he really really appreciates it, and is experiencing new things all the time.
He's also more generous than my XH, and worships me, rather than himself (my XH was a showboat about being a "great lover").

Sex with him is great! GREAT!
At first I was suprised by that he had such a big xxxx. He is a short man so i guess i thought it would be small. When we first kissed i could feel us both shaken in eachothers arms as he kissed me with passion that i have never felt before but i dont know if it was nervousness or the wantingness of eachother. We were both so scared. He was different and he made love with passion. It was intense. I have been with him for 7years now and i have tried to end it but Some how we end up back in eachother arms. He is not only a great lover but a great friend. I dont want to lose that. I will be there for him no matter what. How do u give up such a good thing. It his birthday this week and he will be 49. I will be thinking about what to suprise him with.

Sex with my married man was the best I had ever had. We were like fire and gasoline in the bedroom and we both exploded. I was not big on oral sex receiving I mean I always liked to give it but I found out what it was all about with him. The chemistry between us was unbelievable. We both loved to french kiss and he was the best kisser I had ever been with. I had never experienced anything in the bedroom as good as what we had together. We both became obsessed with being together because of the way we made each other feel.

lol, how odd, its awesome, i'd like to be a bit cynical and say it was something to do with the secrecy side as it seems every ow/om says the same. but i have and a few emr's and never experienced a connection of this magnitude.
we have no inhibitions with each other, at all, (i usually have one or two with others)we cant keep our hands off each other and if in a forced non contact situation the tension is unreal. i actually crave him.

Mindblowing! We share a closeness that I have never imagined feeling with another human being. We are completely uninhibited. When we make love it can be absolutely wild, lustful, and hardcore, or it can be slow and beautiful lovemaking, or it can go from one to the other in one session. I love the variety. I love that he tells me exactly what he wants me to do. I love that he takes great pleasure in pleasing me. I love that he loves me.

What was/is sex like with MM?

* It was amazing. It was (and is!) the best sex I have ever had. I've been sexually active since I was 14 and am now 27. He's amazing. He's the best lover ever. His body is just perfect and he feels so incredible inside of me. He's willing to try anything and is into a lot of the same things I am (toys, spanking, light bondage, etc). His willingness to try something new/different, his passion, his sensuality, it all adds up to an amazing lover.

sex was adventurous. we were always in unconventional places - once standing up (I had my body wrapped around him) and he was holding me. we were in a preserve near his work. it was awesome. i loved being adventurous with him.

some of the best times, we just kissed. we did a lot of that. i always enjoyed making him feel good, and I did it so well with my mouth. he almost got into a car accident when I had him in my mouth while driving! i could still taste his cum.

What was/is sex like with MM? Had you experienced anything like it before?

Wonderful, but because of how close we were I totally expected it to be that way. I had high expectations and he actually exceeded them. I have had enough partners (he was #9) to know what to expect but this was totally different and so much better.

What does he say about making love/having sex with you?

He has had less partners but said I am the best he has had. In a way I do believe him but he could just be saying that to, only he knows. Does it really matter? I know he loves me and feels great, it is the same for me. Heck, I still feel that love high well after we are "done" and have returned home. I never felt anything like that before.

Please use this section to say anything and everything you want to tell the world about your experience of making love/having sex with MM.

I always would meet someone new and we would date and get to know each other during this process. So I never really knew anybody that well before we dated, including my H. With MM I have known him for years and had a fondness for him. However, I never expected in a million years we would end up together. Now I can see why people like to move the "friend" into the BF/H category because you know what you are getting. It really has been a great experience, I mean being with someone that you know and trust so completely, you just can't top that. I don't think I would look back with any regrets. This was just meant to be and was a natural progression of a friendship that spans almost two decades, an EA that lasted about two + years on now a PA for the past few months.

when we had sex it was the best i have every had, i don't know why  is cause is not a boy but a real man  he is 29 and im 19 and it is thrilling and exciting and i just ant him all the time and can't that is what kills cause even know him and his wife haven't had sex in while she gets to sleep in the same bed and be known as his. And we have to keep quiet because this could mean jobs for me and him.he enjoys the fact that i love to please him and love for him to tell me  what to do and he loves that i can't tell him no and it gets him hot in botherd when he pleases me and we can not keep  are hands off each other and thats what i love i just wish i could be the one sleep next to him not her!

I love having sex with him. In the beginning it was kind of hot and crazy.
Now it's kind of slow and nice. We are finally comfortable with each other.