My MM, from day one, said we were meant to be together. That the only thing off was timing. He would tell me that if he wasn't married, it would have been me. But ever since he had introduced me to W, he's had the fantasy of a threesome. He's brought it up a few times. I try to shy away from the issue. He's told me that he's mentioned it to his W, but didn't say my name. He's already living the reality of two women, in-love with him, now he wants us All to be intimate? I don't know what to do? I admit, I am curious- really I am; and I'm curious about bungee jumping too, doesn't mean I'll do it though. I wonder if any of your MM have disclosed fantasies like that, and how did you handle it?

Yes MM has mentioned a threesome to me. The only thing is he KNOWS better to even mention the W in one with me! I have thought about it also, not saying that it will happen, but sheesh I have done a few things that I thought would NEVER happen. MM has asked about it a few times since then, I tell him I am 'thinking' about it and it's let go. If you don't want to do it then don't do it. I haven't done it cuz I am not sure if I can, MM knows that also....take in all the points and look at the whole situation. I tell MM that I can't think about it too much cuz I can't even think of him having sex with another woman let alone with me there! Guess that is a lil redundant cuz as soon as the W gets a lil frisky I know that will happen.....it's your decision and always will be:)

No, nor would he. MM is old fashioned and would totally be against him.

When he was still married, I told him that I would if he was ever single. Even if his W had wanted to, it would have been too odd!!! So, now it's a maybe.

I think that all three of you sleeping together is just asking for trouble!

At one point in my relationship with MM, we started to talk about our sexual fantasies. At that time he mentioned he would like to one day try a threesome, either another woman or man. I don't think he was thinking of involving the wife in this. The wife from what I know of her would never consider this. My reaction to this was one of surprise. I not sure really what to think of this. Does he really want to try a threesome or is it just a passing thought? I never tried a threesome and don't have any real drive to do so, but it makes me wonder just how serious he was.

Yes, he asked and we were both interested. I tried everything I could to find woman #2 for him, looked into escort services, ads in newspapers, etc. A girlfriend of mine was also having an EMR with a mm who also wanted a threesome. She and i talked about what they wanted and agreed to be the "other" for each other. We ended up practicing and having lots of fun together. We never ended up however, enganing in it with either of our mms.

He also wanted to watch me have sex with another man.

I was as sick as he is and thought it would be fun. Complete fantasy fulfillment, vs. the missionary position with the w.

Definitely not his style! I would say no way, i believe intimacy is lost this way.

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NO WAY!!! He is not a pervert.

I have had a threesome with my MM and one of his friends. Never with the wife and he has never suggested that!

MM has told me this is one of his fantasies - to see me with another woman. but with the W - no way. i've seen her once and she would not turn me on, should i ever consider such a prospect. he doesn't want to have sex with his wife so there is no way he would want me to.

O, boy.

First MM? Fantasized about it-but no invites

Second MM? Our first sexual encounter was a threesome. Oops.

Never!

He says it's said to be every man's fantasy and that is how it should remain. Not something he really wants to act out. I wouldn't be interested in a someone who really wanted that experience anyway.

He has talked about it as a fantasy..but then so has practically anyone I have ever dated. We have joked about 'rules' for it.

I think he'd be really surprised if I said yes let's do it. Not sure if he would go through with it.

He certainly wouldn't be bringing his wife into it though..dont think that would even cross his mind!

he always fantasized outloud about it with me. but no... we never did anything about it.

MM is aware that I am Bi/sexual. And he has mentioned a threesome with and without his wife. I would never agree to it for one reason... His wife is very unattractive.

MM has NEVER asked me to be in a threesome. I jokingly told him I would never be in one with him because he had already had one with me and the W. He said "But not at the same time."

If he ever asked, I would have to seriously take a look at the relationship. I had a hard time sharing him, why would he want to share me?

MM said that one time he had a dream where we were making love and then he turned and his wife was there too. But it was more of a nightmare for him - ha!

Yes - he has mentioned it. I believe he is very serious about it too. Although he wants one with me and one (or two?) of his best friends so that I could be the "star". Not sure if it will ever really happen though. I'm not even sure I would be able to go through with it. But, then again, since meeting MM I've done a lot of things I never I thought I would do.

Yes, MM has stated that is something he wants us to do. He is looking into it. I told him I would be willing to try it, just as long as I didn't have to "sex" the woman. We have had sex with each other and had someone listen in over the phone. I also gave him a BJ while he was on the phone. Kinky, I know, but very fun.

Yes, MM has mentioned it, and we've fantasized about it together. It's made for very hot phone-sex from time to time. I would probably do it if the opportunity presented itself, but honestly, I'm not sure how I'd feel afterward. I think the relationship has to be 100% rock-solid with no insecurities whatsoever, on either part. And I'm not sure I'm in that place yet.

think about 3somes, but they do seem to talk about it more.
its a fantasy of mine to have 2 men and my mm wants me to live my fantasy, even agreed to go ahead with it if i found another willing male (easier said than done)but there is a small time frame to do 3somes.
they either have to be in the very begining before emotions get involved or near the end when its done to spice up a relationship, unless ofcourse you are both broadminded and enjoy sexual experimenting.

they were in the bedroom (ugh) and she looked at him and said 'pretend i'm (insert my name here)'

During fantasy sharing time he once told me he'd often think about me making out with another woman ever since I told him of some college make out moments. That's as far as it went. He then said it's not something he would like to try in real life but the idea of it was nice.

My MM fantasizes about me with him and another man. It really turns him on, and consequently, it turns me on. When we are having sex, he talks about it. Neither of us want to admit it, but I think secretly we both really want it to be more than a fantasy. It really turns me on to submit to his fantasy.

My MM and I have a had a full relationship in the beginning, in fact, it was so completely fulfilling that I thought he was lying about his committment, or even that it may have been a situation of convenience. Things changed last year when a woman he had dated in the past sent his wife some nude photos of her husband in compromising positions. This made her start being suspicious about his time, his e-mail, and his cell phone. I soon found myself having only limited access to him whereas before, I used to see him every two days or so, and I talked to him everyday several times a day. One day he asked me if I would consider a threesome with his wife. He said that it would make it easier for us to see each other. I did not agree to it because I never want his wife to have any connection to me should she become jealous. Right now, she does not know about me at all, and I would like to keep it that way. I love him, but cannot face his wife. I know that she would not be able to handle it. I know that she is with him when I am not around but I would not want to see them together. That would change everything in ways that I do not think would be positive for anyone.