I have known a man for 34 years off and on. When we first met he was married I was not. When he got divorced I had someone else or I was married. Vice Versa for years and years our timing was never right! This day I can still call him on his cell and talk as friends. He is married I am not.
I just want to say to women out there or men IF you decide to get into a situation like this. Be prepared to keep yourself busy with lots of other things. If you dont all you will do is think of that person. Its heartache and many other feelings you will get. Look at it this way though YOU will choose to be in this situation no one can make you. But when you are attracted to someone it is hard to stay away from them.
For about 2 years I have been contented with being alone for once in my life without feeling I needed a man to make me happy. THEN I got a Handy Man to help me around the house. GUESS WHAT he is married and I am attracted to him. I feel myself going into the SAME feelings I had with the other married man. This time I feel it will be harder on me. I am older but NO wiser I guess. I will keep you informed on this website if you even care!