You hit the nail on the head - it's all about getting his "supply" - attention. He isn't capable of feelings. People are just objects to him. They only exist to feed him his supply of "aren't I the best thing since sliced bread and panty hose!".
I want to warn these women, tell them they are nothing but objects. But I can't. They wouldn't believe me even if I tried, cause afterall he is Mr. Wonderful!
I am seeing him in a whole new light. I can now see how calculating and manipulating he is, how he uses people. I just want to hurl. Plus it makes me want to get out of here all the more. Last night I went online to look for apartments. I have also been applying for jobs, but they all want a resume - something a stay-at-home mom for 35 years doesn't have.
It's going to get worked out, it's just a matter of when. I just wish it would come sooner rather than later.