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Flirting

April 21 2012 at 11:04 PM
naomi1435  (Login naomi1435)
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Response to He's Already Flirting!

Shawn,
You hit the nail on the head - it's all about getting his "supply" - attention. He isn't capable of feelings. People are just objects to him. They only exist to feed him his supply of "aren't I the best thing since sliced bread and panty hose!".

I want to warn these women, tell them they are nothing but objects. But I can't. They wouldn't believe me even if I tried, cause afterall he is Mr. Wonderful!

I am seeing him in a whole new light. I can now see how calculating and manipulating he is, how he uses people. I just want to hurl. Plus it makes me want to get out of here all the more. Last night I went online to look for apartments. I have also been applying for jobs, but they all want a resume - something a stay-at-home mom for 35 years doesn't have.

It's going to get worked out, it's just a matter of when. I just wish it would come sooner rather than later.

Blessings!
naomi

 
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