Not sure what's up with me today just really BLAH!. I'm kinda lost .... My H seems to think that spending alot of time with me and pleasing me is what it's going to take for me to get over his A. But he doesn't talk about it or what need that she was able to fullfill that I wasn't (not to sure he knows). I think he is sorry and knows that he hurt me to some extent but I also think that he is trivializing (spelling) the A. He doesn't want to keep re-hashing the past.... hmph past.... 06/02/06 & 07/10/06 same OW is ohhh those dates are so far in the past. It's just the little things that seem to get to me right now. Like I asked him for his loving behaviours list that he was supposed to complete as part of a MC assignment. He said why? You know what I want(ahhhh can you feel the commitement). Sorry for being sarcastic in my post but damn today is just not a good day. By the way is there anyone else out here that doesn't really know how to articulate what he/she want's from WS??