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We did it!!!!!!!

July 17 2007 at 2:58 PM
Kelly  (Login Losinghope)
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Thanks in a big part to my H who asked if I wanted to talk about why I had a bad day and in part to Ami and FF for their words of encouragement we talked some last night and I was finally able to tell him a lot of the feelings that I am having. The big one being the anger that I feel that he could compliment and encourage her but couldn't for me even though I asked him for years why he never did (He told me that wasn't the kind of person that he was and that he just didn't think about those kinds of things). So we need to talk more but my H wanted to take me to see the Harry Potter movie so we went and did that last night.

Thanks for being here everyone

Kelly

 
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fairyfriend
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You did it!

July 17 2007, 9:48 PM 

Hooray! Great job, Kelly! Now that you have spoken up for yourself, I'll bet you will find speaking up becomes easier and easier for you.

Thank you for the happy news. I hope you enjoyed the movie.

Happy fairy hugs,

fairyfriend

 
 

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Way to go!

July 17 2007, 9:58 PM 

Kelly,

You should be very proud of yourself.

(((HUGS)))

Ami


 
 
Adam
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Yay!

July 18 2007, 2:33 AM 

Well done! I hope it continues for you!

 
 
Anonymous
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Re: We did it!!!!!!!

July 18 2007, 4:50 PM 

Kelly,

Communicate, communicate, communicate!!! It cannot be stressed enough. If it's bothering you..talk about it - got a question? ask it!! If the lines of communication stay open, you are on a good path for recovery!
Glad it helped!!!!
BTW: we all went to see Harry Potter Saturday and it was awesome!!

Denise

"Our lives begin to end when we become silent about things"

 
 
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