Just needing to vent!!! I am so d@#$med frustrated...my husband came to me, asked if I was up to cuddling...I said no, I wasn't(it was 0400 in the morning, I was very sleepy)...He said he thought I was cold and heartless...that I had always been that way towards him, and that was why he had the A..
I told him again, that I have been telling him that I am still hurt and angry because I haven't seen any actions by him that show that he wants to be honest, and to put his share of the work in on our marriage...We talk or argue in circles, he continuously makes himself out to be the victim in this...
Lisa

<<he continuously makes himself out to be the victim in this...>>

No wonder you are frustrated...and justly so. Until he accepts resposnibility for what he has done and does the work necessary you are going to continue to feel this way. I know, it comes and goes probably, but always come back around. It is a viscious cycle....


~ CAL
"You, yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection" ~ Buddha

<<he continuously makes himself out to be the victim in this...>>

It is necessary for him to do this to keep from taking responsiblity for himself. These are the methods of "little" boys and girls.

When he grows up he'll grow beyond this tendancy.

TomJ