You last wrote: I suppose the biggest point about the calling it a day is that it would not be because I don't love her, but that it would just make my life easier, and I seriously think I'd probably be happier in the short term. I don't know about the long term yet.
You wrote that August 1. Today is the 10th. Are you okay?
Peace is not just the absence of war; it's an exercise in compassion. -Dalai Lama
Coming to you from JJ
I've also been wondering about you Adam. I hope your wife and you are working hard on your marriage. I hope she's coming to see who is, and who isn't responsible for her happiness. Most of all, I hope that you are doing OK.
I'm holding my breath as well. Adam, we know you had reached a point where you really needed to see your W working on the M and reaching out to you. I'm hoping that, at least to some extent, you're seeing both of those things happening. But whether she's more "present" emotionally or not, I am wishing you strength of spirit to get through this. You have my fervent best wishes. BlueIris
"We cannot wait for the storm to pass; we must learn to walk in the rain."