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Adam...are you okay?

August 10 2007 at 10:03 AM

JJ  (Login fivefoottwo)
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You last wrote: I suppose the biggest point about the calling it a day is that it would not be because I don't love her, but that it would just make my life easier, and I seriously think I'd probably be happier in the short term. I don't know about the long term yet.

You wrote that August 1. Today is the 10th. Are you okay?



Peace is not just the absence of war; it's an exercise in compassion. -Dalai Lama
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TomJ
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Re: Adam...are you okay?

August 10 2007, 5:18 PM 

I've also been wondering about you Adam. I hope your wife and you are working hard on your marriage. I hope she's coming to see who is, and who isn't responsible for her happiness. Most of all, I hope that you are doing OK.

TomJ


 
 

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Re: Adam...are you okay?

August 10 2007, 9:59 PM 

I hope you are O.K. too.

 
 


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Re: Adam...are you okay?

August 10 2007, 10:40 PM 

I was just thinking the same thing... We havent heard from Adam.

I too hope that you are doing well.

Coral

"A discovery is said to be an accident meeting a prepared mind."

 
 

Anonymous
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Re: Adam...are you okay?

August 11 2007, 9:26 AM 

Add me to the list of those concerned for you. We hope all is well. Please update us when you can.

Take care...

~ CAL
"You, yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection" ~ Buddha

 
 

BlueIris
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Re: Adam...are you okay?

August 11 2007, 10:46 AM 

I'm holding my breath as well. Adam, we know you had reached a point where you really needed to see your W working on the M and reaching out to you. I'm hoping that, at least to some extent, you're seeing both of those things happening. But whether she's more "present" emotionally or not, I am wishing you strength of spirit to get through this. You have my fervent best wishes. BlueIris

"We cannot wait for the storm to pass; we must learn to walk in the rain."

 
 
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