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Dear Peggy question of the week...

August 12 2007 at 11:30 PM		Pat  (Login dancin-gal)
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Interesting question and answer...

<a href="http://www.dearpeggy.com


Check out her blog also...

Pat

"Time is precious, but truth is more precious than time."


    
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JJ
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Re: Dear Peggy question of the week...

August 13 2007, 7:09 AM 

Yup, Pat. Always a gray area in our future...Needs constant monitoring and honesty.

Raw, hard, sorry-if-this-hurts-you kind of honesty. It's the only way to fly.

 
 

fairyfriend
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August 13 2007, 8:44 AM 

Yeah, but that kind of honesty is way less painful than enduring another A!

ff

 
 

JJ
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Re: Dear Peggy question of the week...

August 13 2007, 9:30 AM 

Oh, yeah, FF! FOR SURE!!!!!

Peace is not just the absence of war; it's an exercise in compassion. -Dalai Lama
Coming to you from JJ

 
 

fairyfriend
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August 13 2007, 11:51 AM 

I had the feeling when I read the woman's question that she and her H didn't really heal from his first A, but just put it behind them. If so, that is more evidence that only honest examination of WHY a WS had an A and what s/he needs to change in self with the addition of complete, open honesty between spouses are what prevents another A from occurring.

ff

 
 
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