Sorry I went away from chat - I was called into a meeting.

Hope you do better with being less of a door mat. People have spoke about persuer/distancer here a lot, and its one of the things that has made loads of sense to me. If you are less of a door mat he might start being more respectful, affectionate and make more effort.

Thanks for all your help today. I'm still struggling over whether or not I should leave for the night. I will not be a door mat tonight whether I stay or not. One day at a time I guess. Sometimes even one hour at a time. Hope you have great day and thanks again.