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alone

September 22 2007 at 5:52 PM

  (Login sweetgrace)
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i hate coming here when nobody is here it's so SAD. It really makes me feel alone. Does anyone else feel like this? This can't only happen to me, there has to be a way that we can make it so that there is someone here at all times. What do you think? I'm willing to give up some time to be here for someone, anyone else.


    
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Hope
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alone

September 22 2007, 6:27 PM 

It makes me sad when no one else is here too. I usually just check back later and someone has arrived. Also, it is rare when no one is here. But, when it does happen, maybe that is the world just reminding you that there is a real world out there that you need to connect with and that you also need to connect with yourself. When no one is here it is just time to go and do that.

Also, many people have families and I notice that weekends can be slow as everyone is out and about doing activities that keep them busy and away from the computer. So for those of us that home is the retreat on the weekend it can be a little frustrating.

Finally, when I have really really needed it most, even at 2 in the morning, someone has shown up. Blue Iris, Adam, James, and others have just suddenly appeared out of nowhere in my deepest darkest moments and saved me from despair.

 
 


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Sorry I missed you

September 22 2007, 7:05 PM 

Sorry I missed you guys,I do check in quite often in case there is someone who needs to share,I sure know I have that need many times myself.
I will stay logged in and check back on you ladies.

James

 
 
Anonymous
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sorry i missed you guys

September 22 2007, 11:07 PM 

Sorry i missed you guys would have loved to chat...

was looking for you yesterday laura, was praying for you earlier that day...

 
 
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