As many will know - NC was something that never got "enforced" but has slowly been given up as she felt able.
Well the other day she told me she has deleted the OM from her facebook friends (which means I can now delete him as well). As far as I'm aware (and she's always told me when she's seen him, both before and after D-Day) she hasn't seen him now in quite a few weeks.
We're still not there yet. At the moment we are in the situation where she isn't likely to see him, makes no attempt to see him, and has cut of connection from him. However, he is still friends with her friends, and so he is likely to be there at future social events.
Still just thought I'd share the progress. She now finally has no direct contact with him, just might have to be in the same room as him.