I am still really angry that he had to screw up my birthday. So I really didn't know what was appropriate for his birthday. I came up with an idea. To replicate the birthday he sent me on to some degree. He sent me to the casino spa and spent $300 on me. He kicked me out of the house and made me spend my birthday alone. Even though I told him I wanted him to come with me. Then we ate burger king on our bed for dinner. So I thought I would send him to the casino with $300 to gamble away and then give him an envelope with dinner money in it and have him go home and eat burger king by himself.

My topper on it was that I would be going on a date with someone else. So he could feel to some degree the terrible loneliness, insecurity, and pain of being on your special birthday while you were wondering what the heck was going on with your wife, why she was so checked out, etc.

I'll probably replace that with hanging out with my girlfriends, but who knows, maybe we'll go to a bar and do a little flirting.

I am absolutely committed to not celebrating "him" this year. He sure as heck did nothing to celebrate "me". Grrrrr.....

Hope,

I just gave my H a token gift... only this past year did I spend more that $60. on him

I think the evil me would buy an ipod and down load tunes and movies that I like and give that to me..

Pat



"Time is precious, but truth is more precious than time."