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OW is stalkin me

March 1 2008 at 7:11 PM
  (Login HurtAmy)
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The OW has been leaving messages towards me on My Space. Mainly trying to get me to thnk that my H is still involved with her...WTF???? The last couple said...."Do you wander where your man is sometimes" and "8 Mos. later and she is still blind", and that I am stupid... I have talked to H about all this.....ofcourse he says not to pay any attention to her, but as you know, I still dont trust anything H says. H has done the whole 180 bit, and is doing really well at letting me know everything going on and where he is at all times. But these little comments, do get me thinking. H knows there will NOT be a 3X....I really dont thnk H would be so stupid, or would he?????????? I know I have to stop looking at the comments, but for some reason I cant.....Grrrrrr!!!!

 
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JJ
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Re: OW is stalkin me

March 1 2008, 9:40 PM 

Tough to respond to this one, Amy. Having survived 3 d-days, and so many lies I cannot count, my advice is to follow your mind...not your heart.

I believe I could have thought things out better...or at least have investigated things more before making judgments.

In any case, it's still a hard row to hoe.

Listen to your instincts....follow them.

Peace is not just the absence of war; it's an exercise in compassion. -Dalai Lama
Coming to you from JJ

 
 
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