To Margie and all the excellent contributors to "a question for the Men out there", thank you all so much. This week has really been a downer for me and I laughed my *ss off reading this post. Bart, you kill me. I think a six pack and a few hours with you would equate to more than six months therapy with an IC. It felt really good to laugh about alot of the issues brought up. And Chris, as I have said before, I really can relate to you. I wish I was a solid and confident in my thought process as you, you are like a rock!

What I liked so much about this thread is I have actually felt very guilty about this characteristic for a long time. I let my wife convince me I was wrong for having these feelings. Although I have never acted on them, and like Chris said, most of the time they are simply fleeting thoughts. My wife actually bragged her father up when she was digging on me once stating "that was one thing my Dad never did, was look". Hello, that is because he was too interested in molesting her, his attraction was his daughter. Go figure, I cannot believe she would even make that comment.

Oh well, not trying to steal a thread, just wanted to thank everyone for contributing, it was great medicine.

Thanks for the compliment. You made my day.

Chris.

Great to hear you laughed reading the posts. If you haven't chatted yet, be sure to try that. It's impossible to keep a straight face when some of these guys and gals start chatting! These people here are the best!

Margie

Margie do we make you laugh (most innocent face)......that just can't be........you must have us mixed up with some other site!