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And life moves on

August 1 2005 at 8:40 PM
Cherish  (Login Cherish66)
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Hi everyone, I just wanted to share some news - I took a new job! I left my old position after 9 years, and took a promotion to a VP of a Company. The promotion was great and I'm now making 50% more than I did 6 months ago! Part of me was sad to leave my staff of nine years - made me realize that relationships come and go so easily. Funny when I think about three years ago, co-workers, friends, husband ...my my how life changes. .....

I am also still seeing the man across the county - it's been 1.5 years now ! And it is still wonderful - would be better if he lived here - but sometimes I wish for that and sometimes I am happy for my freedom? Guess life is never truly perfect? But you just have to be happy for what you have.

I don't think about the affair much anymore - although I am still angry that "they" got away with it so easily. They're apparently adopting a baby this year. I only hope he still remembers what he did - when he looks in that mirror. You can run - but can you really hide from yourself?

Life is great for the most part - and when you think about the sad past ...just close your eys and wake up to a new day....there's ALWAYS a new day !

I wish everyone peace....

Cherish

 
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spirit
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Re: And life moves on

August 2 2005, 4:50 AM 

hey cherish, congratulations on the new job, sounds wonderful and so do you.

a bloke on the other side of the country, sounds like the best of both worlds, you have a companion but you also have your own space! excellant.

nice to hear from you, a shining example that there is a future and that it can be good

hugs to you
kath

 
 


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Re: And life moves on

August 2 2005, 8:37 PM 

Congratulations Cherish! What wonderful news. Sounds like life is going good for you

best wishes,
Carol!

 
 
Cherish
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Re: And life moves on

August 2 2005, 9:45 PM 

Thanks - and part of my survival I contribute to this site - which was my life line at the time !

Wishing everyone peace - and wishing none of us were ever here !

Cherish

 
 


(Login spirit60)
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Re: And life moves on

August 3 2005, 6:03 AM 

cherish
that is part of why i am still here, this place was so important for me in the hard times and now it is such a joy in the good times. i too try to give back

i also find it helps me

hugs to you - fly and be free
kath

 
 


(Login jf254jo)
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Re: And life moves on

August 20 2005, 8:23 PM 

Hey Cherish could you please email me

Jo

 
 
Cherish
(Login Cherish66)
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Jo -

September 17 2005, 9:23 PM 

Jo, sorry for the late response - I don't come out here much anymore. Please let me know where I can e-mail you...

Cherish

 
 
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