Hello Everyone,

I just wanted to let all of you know that Im OK...doing fine. However, I will no longer be posting.  I just wanted to say thank you everyone for your concern and support.  It has meant so much to me. 

I love you guys and will miss you all very much...Carol~

Carol,

I know how much these boards have helped you and I and I just want to let you know you can e-mail me if you need anything. I think you should have my e-mail address. If not let me know and I will send it to you. I still have yours!



Tammy10

I'm sorry this has happened--still another boundary violation by an unsafe (unsavory?) person that you are forced to deal with. My thoughts are with you, come what may. Never for one moment doubt your inner fortitude. I would do the same thing under these circumstances. Sometimes there are no safe places left, except for that place we all have inside us where no one can enter to hurt us.
BB

Dear Carol,
I'm so so sorry that you have to stop posting here. It just seems like another violation of your territory and life. It just isn't fair that the interloper feels free to do this. She has no shame.
Carol be strong and I hope you will continue to find your way in life. We will miss you. You have been an inspiration for your courage and good sense.
Take care and I hope one day this experience will just be a faded memory.
Take care of yourself.


Diane

Dear Carol,

Because I was so fearful of doing anything other than lurking after my D-Day (because I was incredibly fearful and suspicious that my H's OW would find her way here to this wonderful site and corrupt another place of love and safety - grrrr), I missed the opportunity of sharing with you and getting to know you better. I can't begin to tell you how much I regret that. You were AND ARE an amazing source of strength and wisdom, kindness and inspiration, advice and spirit. You helped me - whether you knew it or not - - over and over again. I miss the warmth you bring to this site. Your email voice echos here, and I miss the sound of it.

May you find peace and safety in your heart and in your mind...and eventually in your life. We are all here for you, rooting for our Carol, and wishing you the best that life and the universe can offer to you. You deserve that and more. Be well. BlueIris

As always Carol, hugs to you.

Coral

"A discovery is said to be an accident meeting a prepared mind."

Sorry to see you go Carol. It is sad that some people are just plain evil and don't know when to quit. Remember to email me whenever you need to. I wish you and your family the best.

(((Hugs)))

I have never met you, yet I feel a bond with you. I too, am sorry to see you go.



~ Cal
"You, yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection" ~ Buddha

Carol,
We will all miss your input on these boards,


((((hugs))))

Pat


"Time is precious, but truth is more precious than time."

Carol,

I haven't been here that much so I really don't know what happen but from reading some posts I can only imagine that a certain someone showed up here.
I have been thinking about you and hoping that things go your way. When I hit a low spot I remember how strong you have been and that gives me the push that I need to keep going. You have been through alot and you never give up and I admire that about you.

May you be well and know that many, many people here love and support you. Once in awhile let us know that you are ok.

I'll be thinking of you
Laura

Carol, I know you're reading this and I just wanted to say,
YOU'RE A WINNER!


Peace is not just the absence of war; it's an exercise in compassion. -Dalai Lama
Coming to you from JJ

Carol

Prayers and hugs coming your way. Know that you will be sorely missed.

PEACE

JL

i have been away for a couple of days and only just seen this.

my first reaction is "this is not ok", but on thought, if this is what you feel you need to do for the moment, then god speed to you.

i truely hope this is your decision and not a consequence of others actions.

please keep in touch and if you ever want to chat on email, you know how to get me, but here it is again, kathyw@arach.net.au or kathyw@dcd.wa.gov.au

god bless hon, hopefully this is another step you are making which demonstrates your strength, as i said, god speed.

kath

I really hope this is not goodbye but think it is. I hope whoever has been reading and hurting you reads also what you have meant and who you are because this person can not hold a candle to you. You have been a shining light for many of us about how to find one's inner strength. All the best to you Carol, MM

Hugs and best wishes

Peanut

We help ourselves when we help others

Good-bye ?????

do not know the whole story on why you are leaving..got bit and pieces and its sad that you were violated here too at the Healing Heart...some just do not have any shame whatsoever

so sorry Carol
hugs
Jo