No big deal....just had to get this out cause it is a trigger, nothing more. When WH comes to the house to get the kids he still wears his ring...at the business he does not. Just an observation. I did ask him about it before, awhile back....he says he wears it but he took it off to do his workout but didn't put it back on "yet". Same old excuse as always...and so not true! Before this used to make my heart sink. Now it just confirms his lack of committement and that I am doing the right thing.



~ CAL
"You, yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection" ~ Buddha

Thank you Ami...it's just all so sad

~ CAL
"You, yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection" ~ Buddha

It kind of IS a big deal because your heart does seem to break each time a trigger or a thoughtless act happens. I really feel for you, CAL. Keep getting stronger! You'll make it. Happy Mother's Day.

gday, sounds like he just wears it to look good for the kids, mmm, you get that, but they will work it out in time.

take care
kath