I can also understand about bad stages in hair length. Mine was at just above BSL. Limited in updos and yet looked terrible down. But since I have got past that my hair seems less frizzy and I can do a huge variety of updos. I am sure that you will like your hair better once your hair gets longer.
As far as frizz and humidity, I have found that doing an ACV every "wash" day really helps. Also, I have given up on using poo. I just CO now or use baking soda in my CO. Poo for me is so drying. A lot of curlies just CO because of the "stripping" poo's do to the hair. You may want to give this a try. You'll find the frizzies will be much calmer even in humid weather.
Hope things work out for you during this difficult hair phase.
Leah
Age: 45
3bFii
23.5/27/Waist-goal reached: 9/1/08
23.5/29/Hips (new goal)
CO only every 3 day. Baking Soda washes with Sauve Coconut conditioner about once a week.
Hebal tea rinses 3 times a week: chamomile, thyme, rosemary, sage and ACV.
Jojba & EVOO with lavendar EO daily.
Deep oil treatments using cocount oil the night before wash day. Honey rinses.
Sleep with scrunchies down length of pony tail or up in a high bun or braid.
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