Hi Marie, I think horses are more than clever enough to realise that people have different methods and they will behave accordingly. I was recently on a yard where I was up against more than just traditionalism - the people there just didn't have a clue full stop.
You might remember me telling you all about the shettie there. I was told she could be a bit of a cow/madam etc etc She was 'prone to double barrelling' people when she didn't get what she wanted etc etc. When I asked what it is she 'wants' I was told that they didn't know!!!
I was there for two months and never had a single problem with her AT ALL!!!
Now, I'm quite new to training horses - I only actively trained her to lead. All I did was spend a little time with her, scratches etc to teach her that I was nice to be with and when bringing her in I didn't just dump her in the pen and run off for a cuppa at home. Truth is, I thought she was a smashing little mare and it broke my heart to leave her. My methods or lack of them (which I think was the secret to my success and their failure!) passed over their heads completely. They just changed how they described her, from the above to a 'sweetheart'. So, you must be doing something pretty special to open these people's minds. Keep it up and show by example what can be achieved. You're biggest reward will be when they follow your example in their ways of handling their horses, if they haven't already.
