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Women didn’t suddenly change their instinctual need for a real man over to a male
pussy in the last thirty years.
However, this doesn’t mean that we men don’t learn how to adapt. The reason
the dinosaurs became extinct was because they couldn’t adjust to changes in their
environment. Men today must also adapt to become more intelligent and savvy. Women
are smarter than ever, and men need to sharpen their wits as well.
Some male behaviors will have to change. For example, it’s no longer acceptable
to make sexual jokes in the workplace, or appreciate a secretary with a firm, openhanded
slap to the buttocks. You have to observe new standards in the workplace, as
well as in social situations.
Just be confident enough to recognize what a woman really responds to instead
of what she just says she wants.
Give her what she really needs – an Alpha Man.
Perceived Value
If there is one thing that will ultimately determine your success with women, I
would have to steer away from the usual cliché you hear about it being your “selfconfidence.”
I would normally tell a beginner at this game that it’s all about confidence,
but now that you’re seeking advanced answers, I need to give you a little more to this
truth than you’ve heard before.
You have self-confidence when you have a firmly developed
sense of your own value.
In the end, women observe your behaviors, listen to your words, and they make
subconscious and pre-conscious decisions about how they feel about you based on this
evidence. Deep in the darkest part of her mind, she’s evaluating your value, and that
will be the primary determinant in how attracted she is to you.
I call this Perceived Value, or PV for short. And it works like this:
Let’s say Dan is walking down the street, and someone walks up to him with a
flawless ten-carat diamond. The guy says he’ll sell Dan this diamond for whatever
money he has in his wallet, OR he’ll sell him a lunch bag of food and water he’s carrying





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for the same amount of money. Dan would first wonder if this seller was out of his mind,
but he’d be interested. They both walk over to a diamond appraiser who tells Dan that
this is a genuine diamond, of the highest quality and cut. He even mentions that it’s
worth over a million dollars, as is.
Dan pulls out his wallet and gladly hands over the $20 he had in his wallet to the
seller and he walks away with his find. He’s a rich man, and it cost him next to nothing.
Now let’s change the circumstances a little.
Dan is stranded in the desert, a hundred miles from any villages or settlements.
He’s been without food or water for several days, and he knows that his time is running
out. The same guy appears making the same crazy offer. He’ll sell Dan this diamond for
whatever money he has in his wallet, OR he’ll sell him the lunch bag of food and water
he’s carrying for the same amount.
Knowing that the food and water will make the difference between life and death,
Dan gladly hands over the money in his wallet to him for the lunch bag. He feels a little
sad that he couldn’t have gone for the diamond, but right now the food and water are
going to save his life.
I ask you, which was more valuable, the diamond or the lunch bag?
Of course, you’d have to say that it depends. To the starving Dan, the food and
water were valuable – in fact priceless. To the Dan walking on the street, the diamond
was valuable.
This is what as known as perceived value. Our concept of what something is
worth is an individual experience. It is subject to circumstances, as well as individual
needs.
With women, however, there are consistent behaviors that communicate this
perceived value. For example, which do you think is perceived as more valuable to a
woman:
o A man who barely meets her gaze, stutters, and has no sense of
humor
o A man who talks with an air of assurance and poise, and makes
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A no-brainer, right? The second guy obviously has more value to a woman.
How about this one:
o A man who calls a woman every day and tells her his feelings and
how much he loves her
o A man who rarely calls her, often leaving her wondering where he
is and what he thinks of her
It’s a little bit of a trick question, but I think by now you know how this works. The
second guy is perceived as the most valuable to her. He is obviously aloof, challenging,
and leaves a woman guessing. While she would never admit this, she knows that he
appears ten times more valuable to her than the other guy who leaves nothing to her
imagination and no challenge.
Your job, my fellow Alpha Man, is to always radiate a higher level of Perceived
Value to a woman. Everything you say or do will communicate this PV to a woman. And,
as you increase your ability to A.M.P. things up by being more of an Alpha, you will be
astounded at how women will pick up on this transmission of energy and flock to it, like
moths to a porch light.
There are actions that increase PV, and these are positive PV factors. There are
things you might do that decrease her attraction, and as a result your PV will drop.
Those are called negative PV factors.
Some of your actions will have an immediate affect on your PV with her. Others
will be delayed. Some will be obvious; others will be hidden. But you must always be
focused on positive PV, every single minute. The higher you drive this perceived value,
the more she will also forgive you for those times you may slip up and act like a chump.
Caution: Some of the things that appear to have a positive affect on your PV in
the short term (such as complimenting her) actually have a negative affect in the long
run. She may blush and thank you, but you must not be fooled. And, conversely, some
of the things that appear to not have any affect (such as standing up to her **** tests)
and even appear to have a negative affect, actually work to your favor over the long run.
This is one of the biggest mistakes guys make, when they misunderstand the ultimate
affect of their actions.
Think of Perceived Value as being like a bank account. When you go to open
your PV account with Donna, the bartender you love with the natural 38Ds, sometimes
you start out with a small balance (if she’s a nice woman to begin with, or if you’re a




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very physically attractive guy). Other times you may start out with absolutely nothing in
the account. You want to keep the deposits going in to drive the PV value up.
The funny thing about this account is that it’s not you making the deposits! She is
the one jacking up the value of this account because of your behavior. You do
something right, she puts in $10. You do something charming and funny, she puts in
another $10. You do something a little needy and insecure and she takes out $15.
As a rule, remember that negative PV actions always take out more than your
positive PV actions put in.
Why is this?
Ever set up a line of dominoes? So you can push one over and a whole long line
of them will fall? If your hand is not steady when you’re setting them up, you tend to
knock over more than just one or two, if you don’t end up knocking them all over by
mistake.
It’s the same thing with the hot babes out there. They’re a lot of work to get them
lined up where you want, but one careless action can knock over all those dominoes
way early, leaving you further behind than when you started. And more than likely she
won’t wait around for you to set her up again.
You have to work at this without seeming like you’re really working at it. The PV
she has for you can really only be increased by doing the right things at the right time.
You raise your PV by giving her a quick seductive look at the beginning of the date. You
lower your PV by trying to sneak lusty peeks at her tits and ass. You raise PV if you tell
her that she’s going to have to come up with a funny story if she wants to stand a
chance of getting a kiss at the end of the night. You lower PV again if you try for the kiss
without establishing the right groundwork.
Your primary skill in raising PV is just to be tuned in to the moment and adjusting
your approach accordingly. Be flexible, and adjust depending on her current state. Don’t
use a technique just because it worked ten times before. You have to pay attention to
the moment.



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Alpha Lifestyle
An Alpha Man knows how to satisfy his basic needs. Without sounding too much
like a stereotype, here are some things that are classically thought of as “Guy Stuff”:
- Beer
- Football, or any competitive, aggressive sport
- Action movies, especially “Braveheart,” “The Matrix,” and “The
Godfather.”
- Dogs
- Porn/Pictures of naked women/Strip clubs
- Hard rock music
- Pizza … and beer
- Kung-fu movies
- Playing guitar or drums
- Cigars
- Fast cars/Car races
- Weightlifting
Okay, some of them are a bit of a stereotype, but you get the point. These are
things that most guys have some interest in. They’re just associated with being a “guy.”
Now, there’s another more sensitive side to many of today’s “intellectual” or
“new-age” guys. These guys like things that are typically thought of as more feminine,
like:
- Classical music
- Art
- Writing poetry
- Cats
- Ballet or Opera
- Gardening
- Films, like “Chocolat,” “Amilie,” and “Shakespeare in Love.”







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- Cooking
- Yoga
When I was a kid, if you were interested in any of these things you were labeled
a “fag.” There’s nothing really wrong with any of these interests, as long as they’re
balanced out by masculine interests. I like a lot of these “sensitive” things, too, and a lot
more men are opening up to them these days. Especially well educated men. Women
talk a lot about wanting to find men who are “in touch with their feminine side.”
Just don’t get too feminine, guys. You still have to keep the inherently male
things in your life, and don’t get too far out of balance.
Yin-Yang and Balance




I’m sure most of you have seen this symbol before. It’s the Chinese icon of Yin
and Yang. It’s a representation of the balance between male and female energies in the
world. Under yang are the principles of maleness, the sun, creation, heat, light, Heaven,
dominance, and so on. Under yin are the principles of femaleness, the moon,
completion, cold, darkness, material forms, submission, and so on.
We need both to complete the circle, and each side has an element of the other
inside it (shown by the smaller dots.)
The masculine and the feminine must balance each other. However, according to
the ancient emperors, Yang, the masculine force, should be the more dominant for true
harmony. While this is probably an old chauvinist view, I think it is probably correct
where it comes to living systems. However, I believe that “dominant” in this situation
really means assertive or active. Men are the leaders. The masculine is the initiator. (I
do not believe that dominant means that men should “rule” or “overpower.”)





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This symbol also represents your need to understand the balance between
forces in the universe. You don’t have to believe in any crazy spiritual hokum to follow
this principle. This is merely the belief that there is a balancing force for everything in
the universe. For every summer, there is a winter. For every light, there is a dark. For
every fire, there is water. We’ve been taught this throughout our lives in various forms.
An Alpha Man has to keep a level of balance in his life with respect to his
interests. If he’s too much on the “masculine” side, he runs the danger of being very
shallow and two-dimensional. He won’t keep a woman that has more sophisticated
interests very excited unless he has some depth to him. On the other hand, if he’s too
much on the “feminine” side, he runs a big danger of being a complete wuss, or
becoming a “nice guy.”
(Note: The term “wussy” is a cross between “wimp” and “pussy.”)
The key to keeping this balance is that for every feminine thing you’re interested
in, find at least two masculine things you are interested in. (For every woman out there,
I suggest they find one masculine thing for every couple of feminine things they enjoy.)
Don’t deny yourself the “guy” things because you look down on them as being vulgar or
primitive. This is social brainwashing that the media has been handing to us for years.
I’ve found that guys who start looking down on all the things that guys enjoy to be
more of what they think women want are usually far down path to becoming sexless
Nice Guys.
I did this myself a while back. I got into a lot of Buddhist and Taoist teachings that
made a lot of sense, but I neglected the fact that these philosophies are ideals, and not
the way the instinctual part of us works. I found myself looking down on those guys who
were giving other men a bad name by being jerks and treating women badly. I cast
aside all the things that I enjoyed doing, like watching a good football game or anything
that women generally found as being typically “male.” I tried to dissociate myself from all
those “bad men.”
I also thought that if I didn’t do all the things women complained about (leaving
the toilet seat up, talking about feelings, never asking for directions) that they would
recognize me as a superior man. What I didn’t know was that women aren’t really able
to put into words what really turns them on to guys. Women have a need to complain
about guys. It’s not bad at all. It’s absolutely necessary.
Women respond to the animal part of men most readily. Even the most
intellectual, sophisticated, smart chicks really respond to the men-being-men behavior
the most. Not grunting-and-scratching-your-balls or igniting your farts with a Bic lighter,
but the kind that shows he’s got a strong sexual charge, and isn’t afraid to communicate
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So watch out as you travel the road of life and discover your ability to grow. While
there are many opportunities to embrace the feminine and soft parts of culture, be sure
you have a firm grounding in those things that make you an Alpha Man. It’s easy to be
suckered off the path.




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Alpha Socialization
Alpha Men understand that a strong and open social circle is necessary for them
to develop and advance in the world. A good network of friends and associates is the
clearest sign of a healthy Alpha Lifestyle.
Make sure you’re not just out on a rabid hunt for Ms. Perfect. Your dating life is
important, but when you abandon your social life for it, then you’ll become unbalanced.
This is more of a detriment to you in the long run.
Don’t make the mistake of neglecting your friendships, especially when you do
find yourself a relationship with a woman. Too often men focus too much on the woman
they’re with, not maintaining healthy ties to their friends. Especially their male friends.
Some of the reasons you’ll want to keep your friendships and social network
active:
1) You’ll find a much more balanced sense of self when you have friends to
keep you active. Your self-esteem will stay higher.
2) It’s easier to keep from obsessing over a woman when you’ve got healthy
distractions to keep you busy. Again, balance.
3) You’ll keep women interested longer. She wants a man who’s got his own life
and circle of friends.
4) You’ll meet more women overall when your social network is large. (At
parties, social functions, etc.)
5) Your friends can give you perspective that others cannot. Our friends tend to
see us as we really are, and their opinions can be priceless.
6) When times are tough, you’ll want people to talk to and support you.
7) You’ll just plain live longer. It’s been shown through studies that people with
very few friends have a shorter lifespan than those with a healthy circle of
friends.
The moral of this is that it is very tempting to ignore your friends when you think
you’ve found that “special someone,” but that’s the worst time to desert them. I think
we’re all familiar with the guy who tends to jump into relationships headfirst and then
ignore all his friends. Suddenly he becomes unavailable to do anything. Months later,
when he’s “overdosed” on his love affair, and they break up, he’s single again and
looking to hang out. And then he wonders where all his friends went.



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Remember, your family is there for you because they have to be. That’s family.
But your friends are there for you because of sincere acceptance, and that’s invaluable,
especially to an Alpha Man.
Networking
A network of contacts helps you in a variety of ways:
- 80% of jobs are estimated to have been filled by word-of-mouth,
referrals of friends. Keeping a wide range of business contacts will
help your professional life.
- A good portion of the women you meet will be through your friends
and friends-of-friends. Keep a good circle of female acquaintances
to introduce you to their girlfriends.
- Just to keep a good range of social activities in your life you should
have a diverse group of friends. You’ll get invited to more parties,
more events, more everything.
- You’ll find that a large social network also helps you in your
personal interests. The other day a friend of mine called to tell me
about a television special on the Shaolin Monks, knowing that I had
an interest in them and martial arts. You’ll have people calling you
to tell you about special sales and other things that might interest
you. All because you keep your friends a part of your life.
Get Used To Saying Things You Might Not Mean
Some guys get to a point in their lives where their disgust with the dating game
with women overflows into their social life. They start to really hate all the “fakeness”
and other game playing in life. To some degree this is good. It’s better to be “real” than
a phony who just says what he thinks to make everyone happy.











 
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