okay thanks

Here ya go:

http://www.network54.com/Forum/241571/thread/1205465622/last-1205990593/What+kind+of+effect+has+wearing+had+on+your+personality-

http://www.network54.com/Forum/241571/thread/1194385596/last-1194628018/How+has+wearing+hair+affected+your+confidence-

If you do a little searching around the archives you can find individual answers to all these questions. As a relatively new wearer, and as someone who has spent hours upon hours upon hours reading the archives, i'll try to simplify. 1) It all depends on you. If you're constantly afraid of being "busted", then eventually you'll stop wearing. It's not for the paranoid. 2) Your self-esteem will probably increase or stay the same. If you're paranoid, it will go down. 3) If your piece looks good, you will probably attract more women. However, if you're paranoid, it will strain your relationship until you tell her. 4) Is it worth it? If it makes you feel better about yourself, then yes. If you're paranoid, it will cause you more stress than being bald, so no.

i was pretty paranoid at first but now i feell totally normal around people .plus i might just tell em if they asked.