India a nation of rapists
Dubai: Nine out of 10 Indian women are "raped at some point in their married life". Statistical fact
But Indian actor Irrfan Khan said this when tabloid! asked him to comment on the fact that Bollywood star Shiney Ahuja is in police custody on a charge of raping his 18-year-old housemaid.
"...I think 90 per cent of married Indian women are raped at some point in their married life. You know what I mean," Khan said.
Is India a nation of rapists? Well, this statement would have the world believe so.
According to a 2001 census in India, there were 220,389,861 married couples in the country.
Mrinaltai Gore, a well-known social worker from Mumbai, placed things in perspective for Gulf News.
"Ninety per cent! I don't think there is anything like that happening in India," she said.
However, Gore, 80, who has been helping women in India find a voice for nearly 60 years, agreed that a problem does exist.
"In our country, where there is limited social freedom for interaction between men and women, marriage is the path most couples take for conjugal relations.
"It is a fact not spoken about but something men and women understand. In cases of forced marriages, yes rape takes place, but it is not 90 per cent."
Instead, Gore placed the figure at 10 per cent.
"India has changed over the decades ...women have a better idea of their rights, but there are those who have still not grasped the idea that marriage does not mean spending the rest of their lives doing their husband's bidding," she said.
A total of 185,312 crimes against women were reported in India in 2007, up from 164,765 in 2006. As per India's National Family Health Survey between 2005 and 2006 that covered 28,139 married women, more than one third reported suffering physical violence at the hands of their husbands. Of this, 7.7 per cent reported sexual abuse, too.
Domestic violence has always been an issue in the country with a population of over a billion, with a focus on bride burning and torture.
A recent Reuters report quoting an Indian government survey stated that "54 per cent of women, against 51 per cent of men, say wife-beating is justified in some circumstances".
Audrey D'Mello, deputy director of the Legal Centre at Majlis, a non-governmental legal aid body based in Mumbai that utilises the judiciary and policy-level intervention to champion women's rights, said that the statement by the Indian actor was unfortunate and conveyed the wrong image of India to a world audience.
She said: "He [Khan] has worked with our centre and is quite sensitive and aware. We would not, as a body react to the statement, as we work within the judiciary and rather follow that path to help women."
D'Mello added that "90 per cent" is a general figure that people use in statements, but not a "pure statistic".
On the issue of marital rape, she said the "state does not recognise it as an offence.
"In 2006 the Domestic Violence Act came into force that covers all forms of violence in domestic relationships, including forced intercourse. But it is difficult to prove. Only when it is a separated couple can a criminal case be filed."
D'Mello said that this was the reason there are no clear statistics on marital rape, especially as it is highly under-reported.
"Women have to stand in front of a magistrate court, which also tries other petty criminal offences, and talk about the abuse - an extremely humiliating experience, so women do not report it."
She said that the difficulty in proving marital rape or adultery, even when it is blatant, forces them to suffer in silence.
"It is an issue in the community - when we speak to the women they do tell us about it. The option to encourage women to report would be perhaps an in-camera trial."