Unable to orgasm during sex (Tight Foreskin) PLEASE HELP ME EVERYONE!!!!

I was a virgin until last week when I had sex with my girlfriend.

Once last week and once yesterday (I'm not here to boast, she's half korean and japanese and she's a SUPER KNOCKOUT but that's besides the point)

but I wasn't able to orgasm via blowjob, intercourse (both with condom on) and I wasn't able to feel much even though she was performing oral sex on me. I could feel something when she was blowing, but I couldnt feel ANYTHING AT ALL when I was thrusting her and when she was riding me it felt good but I wasn't anywhere near feeling anything that would bring me to orgasm.

She looked and felt upset and I really felt unhappy and very dissapointed too. THe only way I could cum was when she masturbated me.

She said that it was probably I wasn't circumcised so I couldn't feel a thing.

I went back last night frustrated feeling like a loser. I pulled back my foreskin with some difficulty and managed to expose the head. I felt weird and I exposed it for 5 minutes to the air. I went to the shower hose and sprayed the jet of water on it and it hurt like mad. I touched my glans gently and it was so sensitive as well.


I dont want to sound sick but as im typing this, im exposing my "head" again trying to get used to the sensation of it exposed. It has been about 30 minutes already and it doesnt feel so weird. I touched it with a finger and it didnt feel so bad, but still sensitive.

Im also able to wear my pants with my glans exposed but its so sensitive when I walk, i squeeze my exposed glans in between my legs and Im not feeling much discomfort. I just peed and cleaned my glans with a tissue and it hurtt oo.

Right now Im trying to pull back even further. Im in a semi flaccid state now and able to pull back beyond the head and another quarterway thru the shaft, but it will go back to only exposing the glans.

I'll probably be having sex with her again next week but I really do want to orgasm whether is it via oral or intercouse (With condom on of course).

I need advice. Am I supposed to be able to pull my foreskin ALL THE WAY BACK during sex or is exposing the Glans Head enough?

Im so worried I don't want to lose her. I think she felt insulted when she wasn't able to bring me to orgasm and I just felt like such a loser and chump. She even asked "Do you love me?" in a frustrated voice and my heart just broke. Besides me sat a girl who is soooo beautiful and I can't do **** in bed and I had to wank myself and make her frustrated. I really am very very upset.


The next time I have sex with her, is it enough to just expose the glans and put on a condom before she performs oral sex on me and during intercourse? Or do I have to pull the foreskin ALL THE WAY BACK?

Will I be able to feel pleasure instead of having almost no feelings like before or will be it the ultra sensitive feeling of discomfort Im feeling now?

I'm really upset. I just bought the Sex For Dummies guide and having it locked up in my cupboard and waiting for my parents to go to bed before reading it.

PLease help me I don't want to lose this girl.