I am a guy in late 20's who has just got an opportunity to be sexually active. Problem is from my teens I have been masturbating face-down by rubbing my penis against the bed. I researched & apparently some call it TMS but the jury is out on whether it's good or bad. A year back I managed to masturbate using my hand but I still prefer the face-down thing.I also have phimosis - my glans is hypersensitive I tried stretching in the bath as suggested here & elsewhere for almost close to 3 months but it didn't help.
Now the other problem is when trying to have sex I find it difficult to maintain a strong erection for even a reasonable amount of time especially when trying to insert during an intercourse - it just becomes "semi-erect". Initially i thought it could be because of my fear of rubbing my glans but I now feel that i have an erection problem too. Also my erection is good if think of kinky stuff. I watch a lot of porn...
Sorry if this is rambling but this is killing me, is this all due to the phimosis thing. Maybe my penis is accustomed to the pressure driven masturbation & it's affecting my erection... I am confused I feel circumcision could help me out here, but I don't know if my problems have a pshycological element to it...
Appreciate if anybody have any suggestions or pointers regarding my problem.
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