Alright, here goes my share of problem. Sorry for the bad english, not a native speaker/writer.

I just turned 19, and I'm wondering which solution I should be taking, here is what is going on :

About two years ago, I could'nt even pull the skin off the glans at all, neither when erected or not.
It would hurt a bit too much.

When I started to have sex with my GF, it was pretty painfull since the skin was trying to pull out but
it would never get to it. Since maybe 5 months, it started to pull out during sex and I've been able to
remove the skin from the glans when not erected at the same time. Although, I am REALLY afraid to ever
face a paraphimosis. I've been having a little issue putting it back when not erected once. I feel like
there's too much skin down here. :P

I somehow barely can remove it myself when erected (didn't force it much), but during sex it is pulling
off by itself and doesn't hurt much.

And also, the glans is really sensitive when the skin is not on it (Although, since it's been a while that
I couldn't pull it out, I guess it's normal... I'll get used to it after a while, hopefully).

Thanks a lot !

I'm a native, and so is Paul, but we're an ocean apart, and a big one at that. You must be from somewhere, right? Now that you've got me curious, where is that?

OK, I think I understand your explanation. This indicates a need to stretch the tight little ring at the end of your foreskin. Can you get a finger inside, or perhaps two fingers? Try getting both inside and pull the opening gently apart. Hold this for five minutes, and repeat it again later that day. Do it every day without fail. Apply just enough tension to tax the skin, but not to creat pain.

Your sensitivity is quite normal at the moment. Eventually this should change enough so you won't feel pain.

I'm fron Canada, Quebec.

Thanks for your tip, and yeah, I can do that. When erected, though, I feel some extra annoying pressure on the glan, I guess what you sugguested might help.

Although, is there much risk of paraphimosis ? I wouldn't want to not be able to put it back, I'm kind of stressed about that.

And it seems like I can put two fingers (barely, but seems doable enough). I've read the method on other post, but I'm a little unsure, basically, I pull the skin a little bit away from the glans, then simply stretch(Not sure if that's the correct word, but meh) the skin a little with my fingertip inside ?

Thanks for the quick answer, highly appreciated.

Do this if you can:

http://pages.suddenlink.net/manual_methods/phimosis.html

Quebec, eh? Why is it that so many people living in a country bound so closely to England still don't have full command of the English language? We seem to be suffering that same fate here in the US with the Latins, and it isn't at all healthy. Do you see a reason why?

BTW, your English is actually pretty good. Keep using it daily.

OK, to assess the risk of paraphimosis, you need to ask these two questions:

1. Are you capable of typing sensible messages to us on the Internet and ...
   
2. Do you have two fully functioning hands?

As long as both these are satisfied, you have virtually no risk of paraphimosis. You seem perfectly capable of the first, so if the second is true also, you are fine.

It is as I say so often, all here in the old messages, but the situation on paraphimosis is this:

The term would tend to make you believe that "paraphimosis" is some sort of "medical condition". That's not exactly true - it's more of a "misadventure" such as cutting your finger whilst chopping the vegetables. You would wonder how you could manage to do it, and clearly, it's most likely if you are doing something foolish, and not in full command of your senses.

For example, if you were drunk. If you were drunk, and started chopping the vegetables in the kitchen, would it surprise you if you ended up in hospital with a cut finger? Not really.

The people who turn up in hospital with paraphimosis (or indeed equally likely, develop the condition in hospital or a similar institution, as it is as often as not caused in hospital), are almost always not in full control of their senses. Being drunk is a common theme, along with those who turn up to the Emergency Department with their penis stuck in the neck of a bottle, or with a (wedding) ring around it.

Children who have pulled their foreskin back, then become too scared to pull it forward again or of course to report it promptly to their parents, are the next group, and then men who have had a catheter inserted in the hospital whilst unconscious or anaesthetised and the person who did this has omitted to pull their foreskin forward again. The presence of the catheter is an extra obstruction that adds to a pre-existing tightness of the foreskin.

Sane, responsible and alert adults are very rarely indeed found with this problem because they would have quite early in the piece, simply pulled the foreskin forward again. If you can pull the foreskin back over your flaccid penis and return it forward again, it should be pretty obvious that if it gets "stuck" during an erection, you only need to "lose" the erection and it will be easily pulled forward. I don't think anyone has yet reported Viagra as a problem in this regard.

The technique of pulling it forward again is very simple. You take hold of the penile skin with both hands (that's why you need two,) immediately behind the constricted area, and pull it forward over the glans. If this is difficult, lubrication of the glans (but not the area where you need to grip) will help. The rule is: If it came back, it will go forward again. The only reason it might not, is if it had been left so long that the glans and foreskin forward of the constriction became excessively swollen, in which case measures to reduce the swelling are necessary first.