Hmm, well if this isn't
the right place for your sort of problem, I think you are going to have a major task on your hands finding one that is
Look, as to your tight frænulum, the message is as ever - read
back through this forum however far back you need in order to understand how
to approach your problem, how much you need to do, and what to expect along the way.
Twenty is fine - there's really no hurry and you have plenty of time to spend on the problem, but only when and while you do
the stretching "exercises", will things improve, so I suggest you do the reading and start now
"Considering circumcision just so I don't have to worry about it anymore", eh? Well, if that is your line of thought, why not take it further and do the job properly
? Then you'd have nothing at all to trouble you! If you are able to make comments like that, clearly you have just no idea
of what you are talking.
And further (I have said this before on more than one occasion,) I have to say that if you are "20 and still a virgin mainly because of insecurities about this", then I really
think you need a didactic lecture on "the facts of life".
- The option to indulge in sexual relations and intercourse in particular, has no connection with whether your foreskin pulls back or not and
- Indulgence in sexual relations and intercourse in particular is not to be taken in the cavalier fashion you imply, except by the intellectually disadvantaged, who by all means deserve to have a responsible adult supervising them. At the very least, given that you have some sort of relationship with a young lady which has a reasonable promise of enduring, you could not sanely consider intercourse without using a condom, in which case the condition of your foreskin becomes moot(2).
If you have insecurities, see an advisor, a pastor, or a qualified psychologist.