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June 14 2009 at 8:50 AM
 

 
I'm 17 and me and my girlfriend has been talking for sometime about having sex, but i've been delaying it because my foreskin is too tight. I can pull it back when its flaccid, but when its erect i can barely pull it at all without it hurting. What can i do?

 
    
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Jim

Lots of choices

June 14 2009, 8:54 PM 

If you'd like for the foreskin to retract without difficulty or pain, you'll need to stretch the skin so the opening will enlarge. Can you get it back at all?

 
    
Paul B.

Back to you!

June 15 2009, 4:36 AM 

Hmm, I have to ask two things - why are you delaying "sex" simply because your foreskin is too tight, and presuming (as I rather suspect) that by "sex", you actually mean vaginal intercourse, then what sort of sexual activities have you already been pursuing?

In regard to the first, the question is - as you might see if you take a good deep read back through this discussion board - why do you connect being able to retract your foreskin with intercourse? If anything, a foreskin that becomes painful if it is pulled back too hard, is a somewhat useful warning that you are at that point, doing something badly wrong, which will make the experience equally unpleasant for your lady-friend (and for just what could be wrong - well, I have mentioned that in many recent discussion threads).

Perhaps a more important point may be that (unless the young lady in question is using a "guaranteed" contraception such as Implanon® and not just "the pill"), then you clearly will need to be using a condom by the time your genitals touch because you clearly do not wish even the slightest risk of pregnancy - which is a significant risk in terms of the consequences.

As to my other question, I would hope you do not see intercourse as an "end" in itself. It is actually merely one part - and sometimes not a big part - of "sex", and I venture to suggest that unless you have spent some considerable time (what might that be? - well, months at least) exploring all the other aspects, then (both of) you will be in for quite a disappointment.

One might also be inclined to the opinion that if you do not understand these details, then you perhaps really are too young to be having intercourse. wink.gif

 
    
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