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April 24 2012 at 12:15 PM
mayan  (Login michelissue)

Hey guys i am twenty two years old and i can not retract my foreskin at all.Below is the description :

a. when flaccid my foreskin completely covers the glans,with an extra bunch of foreskin which is reddish in color in contrast to the normal color of the foreskin which is black.

b. when flaccid and i pull my foreskin back ,the bunch of foreskin rolls down and gives pin hole view of my head and i feel no pain.The opening of the top whitish part is very small and hence it prevents the foreskin to go down deep.when i try very hard then around .5 cm of my head comes out as if it has been squeezed out. the whitish part of foreskin is approximately of two cm length.

c. the same is the condition when i am erect The only difference being that there is no cluster of skin at the top as it was in the flaccid condition, as the penis has grown in length.

d. In full erect condition my foreskin completely covers the penis with a pin hole view of head and as mentioned above whitish foreskin of two cm's.

Please help me in diagnosing my condition.

thanks

 
    
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Jim
(Premier Login jimsplacetofixthings)
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Diagnosis

April 24 2012, 12:46 PM 

Your foreskin opening is too tight and needs to be stretched. Nothing complex here. Have you read all of the threads on this page? One of them shows pictures and offers a link to a page which describes the basic exercise to be done. There are directions on that page which also serves for directions for what is shown in the pictures. My suggestion is to do what is outlined.

 
    
Mayan
(Login phimosis)

Re: Diagnosis

April 24 2012, 1:09 PM 

Thanx for the reply.
I am confused about why has the top part of my foreskin has turned white ?

 
    

(Login Paul_B.)

Don't sweat the colours.

April 24 2012, 4:21 PM 

Different people - notably those with dark or very dark skin - have different degrees of pigmentation in "transitional" areas such as the lips, inside eyelids and of course at the other end, the genitals. This would be particular apparent in a woman's vulva.

In particular, pigmentation does often relate to the degree of exposure - but not always.

Your foreskin is clearly such a "transitional" area, the inside foreskin may variously be as dark as the outside, or quite pink. Much like your mouth.

If you have never been able to retract, than you should have little concern about any form of skin disease and can reasonably conclude that these colour variations of areas that have not previously been exposed, are perfectly normal.

You have some stretching to do. Read a lot of the previous material here and get working on both forms of "exercises". Don't worry about retracting for the moment, just give it a gentle try every week or two (or more often if you can't resist) to see if you can detect any improvement but don't get upset if you don't. Just do the work.

Note that it will take time, but you have no particular need to hurry. You can do everything you need, sexually, just as it is.

 
    
mayan
(Login phimosis)

Re: Don't sweat the colours.

April 25 2012, 11:30 AM 

Thanx paul for the information.
I would definately work on this.
One more thing, u mentioned that this would not pose any problem in normal sexual intercourse.
Is this the case using condom?
If we are doing sex without a condom then will not the non retractable skin hurt?

 
    
Jim
(Premier Login jimsplacetofixthings)
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Are you married?

April 25 2012, 1:20 PM 

If you're not married and not willing to risk pregnancy, you need to be using condoms. Without, if the skin won't retract at all, there should be no pain. Some retraction could cause pain.


    
This message has been edited by jimsplacetofixthings on Apr 26, 2012 7:15 AM


 
    

(Login Paul_B.)

I think Jim mixed his answer.

April 26 2012, 6:34 AM 

If you're not married and not willing to risk pregnancy, you absolutely need to be using condoms. Really, you should be using contraception as well.

A condom mostly prevents enough "drag" being exerted on the foreskin, to cause it to be pulled back, so is considerably more comfortable if there is a problem with tightness. If the foreskin is quite tight and cannot be retract when flaccid, then it will be even less possible for it to be retracted when erect, and there will be negligible tension at the opening to cause discomfort. Only when it is almost retractable will it come back far enough over the glans that the glans tends to stretch it open that last degree and cause pain.

 
    
Mayan
(Login phimosis)

Re: I think Jim mixed his answer.

April 26 2012, 1:08 PM 

Hey guys thanx for the replies.
Ya using a condom is a absolute necessity if one is not planning for a baby.
Anyways in my case the foreskin is totally non retractable even if i am flaccid. As you said that natural sex, without using condom,will not cause any pain if the skin is not at all retractable.
This means that i can even live with the situation and have a good sexual life. Is that true??

 
    
Jim
(Premier Login jimsplacetofixthings)
Forum Owner

It's true it will function

April 26 2012, 1:41 PM 

The goodness of it somewhat depends upon you and your partner.

 
    

(Login Paul_B.)

Absolutely.

April 26 2012, 2:55 PM 

You identify as being in India and other fellows have observed on the sexual prudery and general ignorance there. (Not that America is to be honest, much better. happy.gif)

I think if you had not learned - if this was 30 years ago and no Internet - that your foreskin was supposed to retract, you would be none the wiser, and would easily spend your whole life never noticing the difference. It may not be or have been quite as good as having a normally mobile foreskin, but no worse than being circumcised!

Being concerned about discomfort during sex presumes that fellows whose foreskin pulls back "fully" and easily, or even those who are circumcised, cannot experience discomfort if they do the wrong thing. But that is of course, not true at all!

 
    
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