Rather than repeating them for every
individual question, we recommend you do a lot
of reading through previous discussions - dozens and dozens of them. Most of them relate to the problems you are having, there may be a few subtle differences in the descriptions that prove particularly useful to you. Just pulling the foreskin back in itself - whether or not it is enjoyable
- isn't going to do a great deal but we explain more effective
While it may seem alarming to get a tear and bleed, I mention that it is actually expected
by some people, that girls may bleed from having sex the first few times due to damage to their hymen. While this actually
indicates ignorance and poor sexual technique, it has been a common tradition since antiquity and the human race seems to have survived (only too well). Point is - you won't die from it but if you do
tear your frænulum, you have actually made it just that little bit longer in the process and you want to start stretching as
it heals to make the best use of that little extra length. Right now
is the best time to start.
It might indeed be a little painful to stretch whilst a tear is healing. Nevertheless, you stretch to the extent that the discomfort is reasonably tolerable. As it heals this will mean progressively firmer tension is applied. By the way, do not
put soap - or anything else that in any way resembles
soap or is marketed as a "substitute" for soap - on this part of your penis.