So, a looooong time ago, I made the stretching tool with the modelling plastic that has been discussed here, but I did not have any success. I have a feeling that I have an exceedingly resistant/thick phimotic ring.
I was interested in a surgical (non-circumcision) option, but whether it's a language barrier, or an ignorance thing (I now live in northern europe) I was told "cut it all or nothing". He did prescribe me Dermovate (
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Clobetasol_propionate ) and told me to apply twice daily for a month.
I bought some silicone flesh tunnels, and I think I'm finally having some success. It's taking a REALLY long time, to make even the smallest increases. But I think that I AM increasing, so I'm cautiously optimistic. Like a month for the first increase. (I just got from 30mm to 32mm)
I'm just worried, I know that for stretched earlobes, the skin returns to "normal" if you don't go big enough to prevent that happening.
I'm guessing that at 36mm (MAYBE 34mm) I'll be comfortable during sex for the first time in my life (wow that's kinda cool to write out.. I'm 33yrs old and still avoid intercourse because of this.)
The reason I posted all this babble was to ask this:
How big should I go to make sure I'm not suffering a return to this?
I'll be honest, I'm getting close to the point where I just want it GONE, scalpels aren't the deterrent they used to be

Cheers,
Chris