You seem to misunderstand the nature of this discussion board.
What you describe is the reason (almost)
everyone comes here. This means that the answer to
your question, is more or less, the same as the answer to everyone else, so you do not
need to ask questions until you have
read many dozens of the previous discussions.
When you have done the reading, only
then if you feel that your situation is somehow different from the other fellows, you might post some comments.
