You seem to misunderstand the nature of this discussion board.
What you describe is the reason (almost) everyone
comes here. This means that the answer to your
question, is more or less, the same as the answer to everyone else, so you do not need
to ask questions until you have read
many dozens of the previous discussions.
When you have done the reading, only then
if you feel that your situation is somehow different from the other fellows, you might post some comments.