ok so basically me and my girlfriend are going to have sex when we go on holiday in a few weeks. i have no problems getting my foreskin over the head of my penis when both erect and not erect.

when its not erect and i pull it really far back the head bends down a bit. when i am erect i can pull my foreskin over the head and further down until its almost smooth without the frenulum giving me much problems however it does feel tight and looks white which i think means its stretching but causes no real pain i always try to push it back further until i feel it really stretching.

Every time i get an erection i pull my foreskin back until i feel my frenulum getting tight and hold it there and continue to do this for a few times, will this stretch the frenulum? i am also starting to do the stretching methods for stretching the frenulum as shown in this forum.

Would wearing a condom during sex prevent the foreskin from going past the head when having sex? i plan on wearing one anyways but my frenulum doesn't b tight when its just over my head i am slightly afraid of it snapping as i have saw on this forum so a condom will help with this?

my girlfriend usually gets real wet so as long as the foreskin is over the head it shud be fine and not move much?

Also i have read having a tight frenulum causes men to have premature ejaculation is this true or only some cases?

also any tips for sex with a tight frenulum which can be given?

thanks hope for some great answers!

From what you describe, I don't think you have much to be concerned about. You said the skin retracts to near smoothness. There really isn't much more to ask than that, so I think you're fine.

There's no telling what the foreskin will do inside the condom once you get heated up. Pre-ejaculate fluid will lubricate the inside of the condom and allow free movement of yoru foreskin. If it retracts and replaces easily, you may get a gliding action. However, I think you'll be fine if your description is accurate.

Men have premature ejaculation because of anxiety mostly. Relax and enjoy yourself. If it happen too fast, do better the second round.

What you are currently doing should have some effect upon lengthening of the frenulum. Have you tried the on pictures in my post on how to stretch? It may now be on the second page.

Premature Ejaculation has much more to do with excitement than with mechanical details. I commented on it in this previous posting just a little while back. The point is - even circumcised men with the loss of sensation that entails, are prone to PE.

So long as your girlfriend maintains lubrication, "drag" of the foreskin stressing the frænulum should not be much of a problem, even if it is short and then even if you were not using a condom, which of course we do advise you to use with the usual criteria. The condom does protect you from this drag, which is in fact the very same drag resulting from loss of lubrication, that is responsible for condom rupture.

There are more and less effective means of applying tension to the frænulum. We believe what we illustrate is much more effective than simply pulling the foreskin back, and people have in the past expressed the not unreasonable concern that pulling the foreskin back might stretch and distort the meatus.

The effect you describe of the frænulum pulling the glans down when you apply firm pressure is only to be expected and demonstrates nothing other than that the glans is more easily distorted when flaccid and that pulling the foreskin back firmly is not a "natural" manoeuvre. Clearly whether this happens to an significant extent when erect is by far the more important demonstration.

So you have made the case for stretching your frænulum but there really does not seem to be any urgency to do so.

I am going to continue the stretching methods on the frenulum to try get it as long as possible as i think this is best. I have made an appointment with the doctor just to have some professional advice on the matter.

So when and if i have sex i guess i should wear a condom and it will prevent much of the rolling back of the foreskin once behind the head?

Also quick question if the foreskin is forward inside the condom will it roll back? And i guess men have has sex with short frenulums without problems so it is possible?

thanks.

The amount of the pre-ejaculate fluid you produce in combintion with the looseness of the foreskin and the speed of thrusting could make the foreskin move within the condom. Only experience will tell what happens. That works both ways, forward and retracted.