so I have been following what you have been posting, but have had no time to post. I tried panties on Lily yesterday and she had 2 accidents before I put her back in a diaper. I put a pull up on Sophia. Lily pretty much goes every time I put her on, Sophia does about every other time. I am putting Lily on about every 20 or 30 minutes though - she is on Lasix and she seems to pee alot! She is able to tell me "Potty " when she has to go, but I noticed when she is eating (which is her favorite thing to do) she just did not tell me even though I asked and she had an accident. So, I am ended up putting diapers on them both today and just taking them every 20 minutes or so. I will be happy when this is all over - this truly is my least favorite part of raising a child!
Just wanted you to know that I am right there with you right now!