was very anti-IUI or anything that involved putting sperm anywhere but the fun place. Then when I told him we couldn't even be fooling around when he "filled the cup" he REALLY didn't like it (doctor said too much chance of spill or contamination). The first couple times he took forever and would no way no how walk his own "deposit" into the doctor's office (my job!).
Now, he's fine with it. Like any of this ttcing stuff, it just takes some getting used to!
As far as you question which to do, BD or IUI the answer is YES! (do them BOTH!). The IUI swimmers go in for the kill but the BD swimmers are the back up!!
GO, GO, GO!!