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take a deep breath...

November 1 2005 at 10:47 PM
Chione  (Login CHIONEV)


Response to Still freaked out!

One of the great things about these boards is being able to post any fear, anxiety, query, or concern and I think you've brought up some valid points. In terms of one's ability to parent -- we all have to decide where we're at. I just know - and see -- that I'm much more patient with my 2yearold than someone 10, 15, 20 years younger (I'm now 45). The kids I know with older, mature parents, who know who they are and have worked out personal issues are the lucky ones. And one thing I knew going in was that my DH and I were totally together on this project. Keep exploring what you're feeling. You don't have to make huge decisions -- just do the thing in front of you....

 
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