First of all I am so very sorry to hear about your losses. As you can see I too have had recurring mcs. I am also 45 (just turned in Dec) and I was having a problem with dryness too(only in the past few years because in my 20's and 30's I never had any problem with that). However these past few months I have had a ton of cm and this month ewcm which I haven't seen in ages and the only things I am doing differently are: regular acu sessions, daily chinese herbs and juicing daily. I am also eating a ton of grapefruit. I can't remember who told me about the grapefruit but I believe it was someone from this board(forgive me whoever it was for my memory lapse!). Anyhow, all these things have made a HUGE difference and also if I feel I don't have enough I use preseed. Kymm and Julie attribute their pregnancies to preseed as they claimed to have some of these same issues. You can buy preseed online.
But if I were you I would get a juicer (if you can afford one get the Champion Juicer, my naturapath claims it is the only one that extracts juice in such a way so as not to damage the enzymes.)
Have you thought about TCM? (traditional chinese medicine). Where do you live by the way?
Also have you had any testing to find out if you might have some immune issues that could be causing the mcs? After my last mc I did consult with an RE who did a battery of tests and found nothing wrong with me, but I have since found out that there are more extensive tests that can determine certain issues that they cannot necessarily see with just the standard tests.
Also another way to increase cm is by using robitussin, though I wouldn't use it because i prefer to go a more natural way (I am not sure what is in robitussin, but some ladies swear by it).
Anyway, please keep in touch here. I pray you have much success with clomid. Polly who recently graduated to the other board got prg using clomid.
5 dear angels (Last prg was at age 43 with twins)