Well...I just spoke to a new RE who is very well known in the area and he wants to look at the films himself (he only has the radiology report). And I'm having the MRI Monday. No sisters, cousins, anyone really to carry a baby. Most of my friends are older and also dealing with infertility! Due to high FSH and age, my eggs may not even create healthy enough embryos to implant in a surrogate, and this new RE said my husband's sperm morphology is "borderline". My main concern, in all honesty, is time. I don't want to mess around for a few years and then decide to adopt and not be a mom until I'm 44. I'm a conservative person, not a gambler or a risk taker. If we used all of our savings on ART I would be a total wreck. I guess by nature I'm a "path of least resistance" kinda chic. The not knowing is definitely the hardest part for me! Let me put it this way...if a pregnant woman approached me this afternoon and wanted us to adopt her child that would make me happier than anything else. Thanks for your note and wishes. Hope things are going well on your end!