It's not nearly as expensive as IVF is. You would have the embryos implanted into you and you would then carry the pg, give birth, be able to breastfeed, etc. The only downfall is being able to find embryos. Some IVF clinics have this program available. I know that Cooper Center for IVF does, and I'm sure there are more out there. You could have the embryos donated or you could adopt them. It's a thought....
2 failed VRs
3rd VR yields return of sperm that won't swim! Using donor sperm....